Sucks... I always make sure to have ingredients home for making bread, a cake, cookies.. its not like you need a lot.
I don't like baking that much but when desperate in the middle of the night i sure as hell don't mind it, and it's also how i've learned to get pretty good at it.
Single of course. If you suffer from the triple A (autism, ADHD, alcoholism), finding a woman may be a challenge. Especially keeping them.
And oh boy you haven't seen my home.
Everything closes here at 10 PM, the supermarkets, the takeaways.
Edit: This is little town Netherlands.
But basically I should just blame myself for poor d̶r̶i̶n̶k̶i̶n̶g̶ planning skills.
Most old timers on this board would`t be considered winners exactly. Then again, im more or less fine with an avarage life
I find happiness in hearing about my friends with 2 kids who is almost about to divorce their wife because of her bitching and demands The grass is always greener....
Im guessing lack of women, happiness and the meaning of life. Actually I dont judge iconized at all...
deelix wrote:
Most old timers on this board would`t be considered winners exactly. Then again, im more or less fine with an avarage life
I find happiness in hearing about my friends with 2 kids who is almost about to divorce their wife because of her bitching and demands The grass is always greener....
Most old timers on this board would`t be considered winners exactly. Then again, im more or less fine with an avarage life
I find happiness in hearing about my friends with 2 kids who is almost about to divorce their wife because of her bitching and demands The grass is always greener....
Greener on the other side is exactly it. But mine is exact opposite way of yours of people seeing mine as the greener.
I myself married 26 years with two kids and pretty happy overall. (Lots of work and ups and downs as expected I suppose for 26 years. It didn't 'just happen').
But hear a lot about guys my age that are still single tired of the dating pool at my age that at 40+ what's left is:
Crazy women, dating someone with teenage kids and expectations you will 'fix' the single mothers teenage hellions, ones with so much baggage no one wants to date them, or is desperate to find a man (any man) that YOU aren't special other than a guy they can say they are dating to stop them being the crazy cat lady.
I wouldn't want to date at my age from the horror stories I hear. That and I married up looks wise, no fucking way I could find someone new to fit my inflated expectations with my 46 year old dad bod having self now...lol
-We don't control what happens to us in life, but we control how we respond to what happens in life.
-Hard times create strong men, strong men create good times, good times create weak men, and weak men create hard times. -G. Michael Hopf
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Well, the best thing is for that trend to continue. We're overdue on this planet already.
That's just the lack of sunlight talking out of you.
Just because the planet is run by the 1% of power-hungry sociopaths greedy beyond any measure doesn't mean we should just call it quits and waste our time on stupid mass-consumption products while drowning our depression in alcohol. I'll rather invest my time into the kids and watch them have happy childhood when I have the means of providing it to them. It's sort of my "fuck you" to all social engineers out there who managed to convince people in developed countries that overpopulation is a thing, because my kids interfere with their profit.
Regarding women, they've always been like this. The problem is that many people can't tell the difference between dating and marrying material. Just don't waste time with daddy's princesses mentally stuck in their teenage years or depressed fucks incapable of getting out of their room in bad days. When you meet a down-to-earth woman who's not a bad person, marry her no matter how she looks.
Regarding women, they've always been like this. The problem is that many people can't tell the difference between dating and marrying material. Just don't waste time with daddy's princesses mentally stuck in their teenage years or depressed fucks incapable of getting out of their room in bad days. When you meet a down-to-earth woman who's not a bad person, marry her no matter how she looks.
Not just women but men and people in general.
But I disagree with the "no matter how they look marry them". Not being shallow, but I mean if you do not find them attractive at all, there is TONS of down to earth women and men. Don't grab the first you find out of desperation under the assumption they must be one of the 3 left on earth and you better 'buy while its in stock'.
Because that's how you are likely lead to divorce...As later down the road you find another down to earth one you DO find attractive, but already bought into marriage with the other. And cheating or resentment happens. Seen it happen too many times.
For finding who you want try to turn it into 'serious' with:
My advice to my kids, and their friends about dating vs long term relationship steps:
Don't judge the relationship on how well you work when everything is awesome and good. ANYONE can get along with both are having fun and agreeing.
Judge if the relationship could work long term on how well you get along when shit is bad between you two. THAT is where you gauge if it can work as a future together.
Too many people look at when everything is fine, and they both agree as "It's great when we are in the same page".
Well yeah..duh, me and my worst enemy could do that. If when you are at odds with each other look at that situation as "I know this sucks, but is it civil and manageable and could I deal with 100's of little situations like this in next 60 years?"
-We don't control what happens to us in life, but we control how we respond to what happens in life.
-Hard times create strong men, strong men create good times, good times create weak men, and weak men create hard times. -G. Michael Hopf
Disclaimer: Post made by me are of my own creation. A delusional mind relayed in text form.
I wouldn't want to date at my age from the horror stories I hear. That and I married up looks wise, no fucking way I could find someone new to fit my inflated expectations with my 46 year old dad bod having self now...lol
No, DX you're also a pretty boi and don't let anyone else tell you otherwise.
No but seriously, too many people (guys especially) say this and put themselves down. It annoys me because looks are just one part of the entire equation. If you're an asshole then good luck finding anyone to settle because looks don't last forever
Last woman I had sex with was 46 years old. Thin, blonde and batshit crazy... and have a son 4 years younger than me with anger issues and ADHD. Buuuut beggars cant be choosers
@Stormwolf
In the grand arching scheme..yes.
We have one purpose programmed into us: Be born, making more of us for no other reason than we are compelled to, die.
Anything in-between is stuff you do to keep yourself entertained between doing those things
But jokes aside. Life doesn't have less value if you have one.
No one said it was less valuable without one either, I think they more mean unless you are one of the rare few miswired to not have the compulsion to procreate (or at least want to constantly perform the act it takes to do that). That having someone else that's proper and healthy relationship in your life adds to the value.
Being stalwartly against one out of principle is no more healthy mentally to you that being stalwartly for looking for one, just any one. Just two sides of the same self defeating coin.
-We don't control what happens to us in life, but we control how we respond to what happens in life.
-Hard times create strong men, strong men create good times, good times create weak men, and weak men create hard times. -G. Michael Hopf
Disclaimer: Post made by me are of my own creation. A delusional mind relayed in text form.
See, if i found the perfect woman i wouldn't mind being in a relationship, but the game of dating is a fuck no. But kids is a no from the get-go. I don't like kids and i don't any either. Never did. I must be an evolution of the human race. A step in the way to detach from the old primal lizard part of the brain
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