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Danyutz
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Location: Redplanet
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 Posted: Tue, 6th Jan 2015 07:52 Post subject: |
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When I started reading this I automatically assumed you are dating a weirdo, I didn't even wanted to read the whole story, but did just in case more details would come up.
By your story, this chick has double personality and she can't help it. I can't believe that after what you endured along the so called relationship, she has the guts to throw in some crap words.
One thing, your kind of kindness hasn't got anything to do with her. Period. Put a stop on any contacts and stop being the one for her. Relationship is based on 2 people equally involved, not just you, you can't love/care for 2 persons.
I don't know how much time you invested so far, but please stop, if it was for you two to be together, things would of been a lot clearer by now. "remove" her from your life, it's not healthy for you.
Love hurts, a lot, i know, but there's also a lot to learn from it, it might be too soon now, but are you going to look with the same eyes for your next relationship?
You pass through a rough moment now, you need to fill your free time with distractions, like close people you can talk with, games, movies, writing, etc.
Gather up and good luck with your next one.
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| Posted: Tue, 6th Jan 2015 07:54 Post subject: |
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-_-
You think thats bad? Holy fuck, if i went deep into my life you would come to DR and you would bake me a cake.
Only positive thing ive always had is that im very open and friendly, even if people find me awkward etc and i rarely mix in the "usual circles or activities" i have my moments. I can only tell you, women can be pretty fucking brutal, so always take things with a big chilly attitude. Only people that are really valuable are people who act and treat you in a way that you completely feel comfortable with and you understand, they respect you and cherish you or at least when you meet they treat you in a good comfortable way, not that whole weird behavior you saw in her.
I have seen how i became secluded and isolated, i can only recommend you to get closer to those friends you have that you may consider good, share, have fun, etc, usual shit. Get to know them and explore them. If you dont have many or any, try hobbies, something like airsoft, sports, books, car meetings, car owners club, whatever, but something that you like and you will find people to share with. A real life nfohump  . Personally i have 4 true friends, several distanced ones, i mess with cars, airsoft, drifting and at work, those are my doors to meeting people.
Sadly, humans need other people, but first enjoy your life, notice it, i used to live thinking i needed a good girl, well fuck i know where that got me, i focus on my life and i cherish it, someday someone will pop up but now i know exactly what i want.
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| Posted: Tue, 6th Jan 2015 08:27 Post subject: |
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Lopin, I'd bake you a cake anytime <3. But yeah, I know that your situation in DR is worse than my 1st world country love drama. I went to DR as you remember. I know that things aren't easy there. But yeah, I don't need a girl to move forward in life. I still got my friends who distract me from shit like this....I am really glad that I got them.
@Danyutz: Yeah, I deleted her number and everything else. I'm done with her. My friend told me "Just wait, she is coming back to you after realizing what bs she did" ...but I don't want her anymore in my life.
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| Posted: Tue, 6th Jan 2015 10:51 Post subject: |
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Don't write a book, your story is not unique in any way, and you're not a good storyteller. /truth
I really don't get all of this drama you put yourself through. Maybe I'm really cold/jaded person, but I would never go through that shit. I was burned once, and that was enough for me. Some people are just not worth it. Period. Plus this chick sounded off from the get go.
I mean, seriously, the signs were there from the start. Learn from your mistakes, and toughen up. No body likes a 'good guy'...
"Quantum mechanics is actually, contrary to it's reputation, unbeliveably simple, once you take the physics out."
Scott Aaronson | chiv wrote: | | thats true you know. newton didnt discover gravity. the apple told him about it, and then he killed it. the core was never found. |
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| Posted: Tue, 6th Jan 2015 11:02 Post subject: |
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A typical crazy bitch. I knew a few, luckily I figured out they were nuts pretty early on a never got attached. You can just throw logic and any kind of common sense out the window when one of those comes along. Many similar situations with them not showing up, not answering, then suddenly needing you, very similar. They weren't necessarily bad or evil girls, they could be very sweet, but there was something very wrong with them and I don't think they can really help the way they were acting. I also don't think they're capable of changing, not truly anyway. So unless you're willing to deal with crazy for a large part of your life I'd just look for someone else.
Although all those girls I've met was in clubs/bars, so maybe extend your advice to not dating girls from FB or clubs/bars. Any decent girl I'm friends with never (that I know of) hooked up with a guy in such a way.
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| Posted: Tue, 6th Jan 2015 11:07 Post subject: |
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Sorry to hear you went through that Kuro  As always, keep in touch and talk to your close friends and family. Not just about this but about the time you were occupied with the crazy girl and were neglecting your true friends. Stay safe, bro.
Should post a pic that was also relevant to Claude:
 
1 and 2 are still amazing.
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Morphineus
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| Posted: Tue, 6th Jan 2015 11:22 Post subject: |
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| dingo_d wrote: | | Don't write a book, your story is not unique in any way, and you're not a good storyteller. /truth |
This, I don't want to be harsh... but I felt like this after just reading a paragraph.
That being said, I'm a bit puzzled why you pursued her when it was rather clear in the beginning she wasn't into you in the way you wanted.
Guess we all need a bit of experience to pick up on that behaviour tho Just look at it as a learning experience. |
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| Posted: Tue, 6th Jan 2015 13:58 Post subject: |
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Yeah, I made a big mistake here. I always have been the "good guy" in my life. But blind / kinda stupid at the same time. Trusting people too much and really to believe her words...ugh.
Anyway, I got rid of everything I had from her. I am really a magnet for psycho bitches >.<
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Danyutz
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| Posted: Tue, 6th Jan 2015 14:07 Post subject: |
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Nothing wrong with being the good guy, kind, even a tad bit naive, but this sick world we live in, is filled with lurkers and opportunists, taking advantage of those like you.
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Nalo
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| Posted: Tue, 6th Jan 2015 14:09 Post subject: |
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Nalo
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| Posted: Tue, 6th Jan 2015 14:20 Post subject: |
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| Posted: Tue, 6th Jan 2015 14:27 Post subject: |
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| Kurosaki wrote: | Yeah, I made a big mistake here. I always have been the "good guy" in my life. But blind / kinda stupid at the same time. Trusting people too much and really to believe her words...ugh.
Anyway, I got rid of everything I had from her. I am really a magnet for psycho bitches >.< |
There was too much crazy from the get go. Don't accept that in your life and you won't have problems being the good guy. |
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| Posted: Tue, 6th Jan 2015 17:04 Post subject: |
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Can't believe you fell for the victim trick.
Don't be their hero, you'll only get used.
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ixigia
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| Posted: Wed, 7th Jan 2015 23:40 Post subject: |
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| Kurosaki wrote: | I don't need a girl to move forward in life. I still got my friends who distract me from shit like this....I am really glad that I got them.
@Danyutz: Yeah, I deleted her number and everything else. I'm done with her. My friend told me "Just wait, she is coming back to you after realizing what bs she did" ...but I don't want her anymore in my life. |
*bro hug*
You did good Kuro. If anything, you gained +100XP that will allow you to not let this happen again, hopefully. Just keep being yourself bud, but always be on the lookout, and at the first future bad signs, abandon ship before it's too late!
@Yuri: In my case I did that even during...not recommended..
"Are games more important than me??!"
[creepy smile] "Yes  "
*/slams door*  |
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| Posted: Thu, 8th Jan 2015 01:32 Post subject: |
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Okay something happened today.
So, I went to grab a drink with some people. 4 guys 2 girls.
I had so much with them and then one of the girls (very cute, lively and funny) wanted to walk home (around 1 am). I told her that I would drive her, no problem.
So I drove her home, she told me that she is really glad that I was here tonight and that she wants to know me better & etc... I told her that I feel the same and that I liked how she made me laugh all the time and that I had fun!.
We exchanged numbers, she added me on facebook.
Okay, today.
I get a message from the psycho girl:
"Wow, you are such an asshole. Not even waiting and already after new girls? I saw that you added a girl on your facebook!!! you are dead to me, so dead. this is bullshit. Good luck in life !!!"
I told her:
"Umm, what are you expecting from me after dumping me? are you expecting me to stay at home and cry myself to sleep? no, I won't. And that girl is just a friend, there is nothing between us."
she:
Asshole! leave me alone!
- she blocked me in whatsapp -
(I deleted her number and stuff, but didn't block her. Well doesn't matter now anymore lol)
WELL...
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| Posted: Thu, 8th Jan 2015 06:17 Post subject: |
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| ixigia wrote: |
@Yuri: In my case I did that even during...not recommended..
"Are games more important than me??!"
[creepy smile] "Yes "
*/slams door* |
@kuro:
Perfect response to a terrible person. Should have just said at the end "none of your business" but all things considered 
Block her on fb/wa as well. You don't need her to contact you out of the blue and make you remember some painful memories.
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tonizito
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| Posted: Thu, 8th Jan 2015 08:18 Post subject: |
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Expect to get stabbed soon  !
No, hopefully not
| boundle (thoughts on cracking AITD) wrote: | | i guess thouth if without a legit key the installation was rolling back we are all fucking then |
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| Posted: Thu, 8th Jan 2015 08:25 Post subject: |
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1 and 2 are still amazing. |
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| Posted: Thu, 8th Jan 2015 18:47 Post subject: |
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Maybe I should've looked into the thread earlier. She contacted me again. Told me that she is sorry, it's all her fault. Now she knows the reason and will work on it and try not to hurt me anymore. She asked me if can be friends and only hang out sometimes & stuff.
Hmmm.... I mean, I don't want to die. Nooo, I don't believe that she would that O_o ...
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| Posted: Thu, 8th Jan 2015 19:00 Post subject: |
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She's trying to manipulate you again. Cut off all contact!
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| Posted: Thu, 8th Jan 2015 19:01 Post subject: |
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I honestly think you should just cut her out of your life altogether. There's no point in having her on facebook after all that drama. Just tell her politely to fuck off (or not) and block her as she might become a huge nuisance if you actually hook up with that other girl.
Just my 2 cents tho.
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harry_theone
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| Posted: Thu, 8th Jan 2015 19:07 Post subject: |
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Trust me she may say let's be just friends, but she will never keep it at that. Psychopath, seriously. Whack-as-fuck!
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| Posted: Thu, 8th Jan 2015 19:29 Post subject: |
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1 and 2 are still amazing. |
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tonizito
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| Posted: Thu, 8th Jan 2015 20:25 Post subject: |
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Really kuro, really?
| The_Zeel wrote: | | ignore everything she says, dont reply, break off all contact, delete her everywhere and dont go back into this again! |
| The_Zeel wrote: | | ignore everything she says, dont reply, break off all contact, delete her everywhere and dont go back into this again! |
| The_Zeel wrote: | | ignore everything she says, dont reply, break off all contact, delete her everywhere and dont go back into this again! |
| The_Zeel wrote: | | ignore everything she says, dont reply, break off all contact, delete her everywhere and dont go back into this again! |
| The_Zeel wrote: | | ignore everything she says, dont reply, break off all contact, delete her everywhere and dont go back into this again! |
| The_Zeel wrote: | | ignore everything she says, dont reply, break off all contact, delete her everywhere and dont go back into this again! |
Maybe...
| The_Zeel wrote: | | ignore everything she says, dont reply, break off all contact, delete her everywhere and dont go back into this again! |
| The_Zeel wrote: | | ignore everything she says, dont reply, break off all contact, delete her everywhere and dont go back into this again! |
| The_Zeel wrote: | | ignore everything she says, dont reply, break off all contact, delete her everywhere and dont go back into this again! |
| The_Zeel wrote: | | ignore everything she says, dont reply, break off all contact, delete her everywhere and dont go back into this again! |
Just
| The_Zeel wrote: | | concentrate on the new chick |
Come on now, don't be daft. Unless you want a nice shirt of "got stabbed +5" that is, in that case go ahead
| boundle (thoughts on cracking AITD) wrote: | | i guess thouth if without a legit key the installation was rolling back we are all fucking then |
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| Posted: Thu, 8th Jan 2015 20:28 Post subject: |
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Ypu want to write a book about that story? ...for real...?
And just cut of contact for fuck sake. She'll find a new victim.
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