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 Posted: Sun, 26th Oct 2014 13:45 Post subject: Crazy girl =/ |
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Had a short relationship with a girl. Lasted 3 weeks she seemed nice and things were going fine for a while until yesterday. She suddenly started to command me to do things for her that I found unreasonable So I said no do it yourself. Then she called me names and was very mean spirited. Then she broke up and told me to put the few things that she left in my house in a bag which she would pick up. She came by grabbed the bag and ran off, two hours later she wanted my help finding a train schedule for her, which I did then she told me to fuck off. 2 hours later she stood in front of my door again. I had enough and did not want to let her in, then she threatened suicide. I called a suicide hotline and they told me she was most likely not going to commit suicide and that I should tell her gently to go away. Which I did. She left. Shit hurts. But god-damn I can not let someone blackmail me with suicide. That just fucking sucks. Anyway, ouch.
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Neon
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| Posted: Sun, 26th Oct 2014 13:51 Post subject: |
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Thanks dude.
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| Posted: Sun, 26th Oct 2014 13:57 Post subject: |
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You have three choices:
1. You cut off your manhood, submit to her whims and forfeit your life.
2. You seriously try to help her by supporting a therapy, which, if it doesnt turn out right becomes 1.
3. You try to avoid her as much as possible and get over those three weeks of wasted time. (Which is probably what you wanted to do anyway)
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| Posted: Sun, 26th Oct 2014 14:08 Post subject: |
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I just ended my relation this morning after almost 5 years.
At this moment I wish I was dead, seeing her in tears is fucking me up.
Can't remember the last time I felt this sad.
Sorry to bitch in your thread.
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| Posted: Sun, 26th Oct 2014 14:09 Post subject: |
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| Toxikbrain wrote: | I just ended my relation this morning after almost 5 years.
At this moment I wish I was dead, seeing her in tears is fucking me up.
Can't remember the last time I felt this sad.
Sorry to bitch in your thread. |
That is fine man. I feel for you. 5 years of memories is going to hurt.
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| Posted: Sun, 26th Oct 2014 14:17 Post subject: |
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Luckily it lasted only 3 weeks, imagine that it lasted for several years until you found out she's bat shit crazy :S
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deelix
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| Posted: Sun, 26th Oct 2014 15:14 Post subject: |
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24,7% of women are like this... just stay away from them!
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| Posted: Sun, 26th Oct 2014 15:26 Post subject: |
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Lol Deelix that is an eerily precise percentage you got there =)
Lopin, no worries I got this, err had this.
Trollpower: I had the idea she was repeating herself. She just burned down a bridge with her "best female friend" And seems to attract disasters like a flame does a moth.
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| Posted: Sun, 26th Oct 2014 15:28 Post subject: |
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Drop her like a hot egg ... and never look back no matter WHAT happens.
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| Posted: Sun, 26th Oct 2014 15:29 Post subject: |
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| VGAdeadcafe wrote: | | Drop her like a hot egg ... and never look back no matter WHAT happens. |
Am holding on to that thought, thanks.
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| Posted: Sun, 26th Oct 2014 18:49 Post subject: |
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if you want a crazy girlfriend you need to be ready to hit some sense into them
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| Posted: Sun, 26th Oct 2014 19:33 Post subject: |
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| Dazz99 wrote: | | if you want a crazy girlfriend you need to be ready to hit some sense into them |
Good luck with that. Hitting crazy with more crazy doesn't work.
And seriously, there's a LOT of fucked up women out there. If you look at the single women of my age (early 30's), most are single for a very good reason. It seems modern society is breeding these crazy bitches like there's no tomorrow thanks to the "princess syndrome" where girls are overly pampered and protected by the parents.
People ask me why I'm single - I answer because I always attract the crazy ones. I used to want to "fix" them but it's a lost cause. Just move on.
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| Posted: Sun, 26th Oct 2014 19:39 Post subject: |
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| Neon wrote: | Good for you, seems like you
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ixigia
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| Posted: Mon, 27th Oct 2014 01:36 Post subject: |
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I've been through similar experiences, you did and are doing the right thing Anticasper as far as I'm concerned. You can't have your life ruined just because there's a psycho around you throwing tantrums and needing a straightjacket and constant babysitting. You have the right to choose what's best for you, and she doesn't sound like it's a valid option. 
edit: Red_Avatar you just described my life 
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| Posted: Mon, 27th Oct 2014 04:11 Post subject: |
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I've had that suicide threat bullshit more than once, and it's a desperate trick on your empathy.
These people know you straight up good fella and wanna use it against you so don't be good with'em cuz they don't deserve it.
God damn I hope someone knows my feels when it comes of how tired I am of bitches' tricks
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| Posted: Mon, 27th Oct 2014 08:37 Post subject: |
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| red_avatar wrote: |
And seriously, there's a LOT of fucked up women out there. If you look at the single women of my age (early 30's), most are single for a very good reason. It seems modern society is breeding these crazy bitches like there's no tomorrow thanks to the "princess syndrome" where girls are overly pampered and protected by the parents.
People ask me why I'm single - I answer because I always attract the crazy ones. I used to want to "fix" them but it's a lost cause. Just move on. |
Dating in your 30's sucks, the women are either batshit crazy or single moms. I always said no to single moms because I have no interest in raising someone else's kid, but I've had it with the crazies.
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| Posted: Mon, 27th Oct 2014 10:40 Post subject: |
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| pontus wrote: |
Dating in your 30's sucks, the women are either batshit crazy or single moms. I always said no to single moms because I have no interest in raising someone else's kid, but I've had it with the crazies. |
I don't mind single moms and I love kids - but even there, finding good ones is hard. Not to mention that many single moms here are poor parents and have kids that are really not likable as a result.
My brother had a go at a childhood friend who has two kids - but she had quite a lot of baggage and when he took her to this party, her ex was there and she spent the whole evening dancing with her ex and my brother was devastated by that. Her ex had no interest in her anymore but the asshole still liked to be the "alpha male" and she was so stupid to go along with it. My entire family then basically told my brother he should cut all ties with her since she was poison to him. Luckily he did - women like that are to be avoided like the plague because they can really fuck you up big time. I learned my own lessons from this.
And to mention a story of my own: at my old job, there was this cute girl who was into me. When it was raining heavily, she offered to drive me home (I didn't have a car yet then) so I said sure. She was flirting heavily and stuff but, being cautious as I am, I kept a distance until I knew for certain she wasn't crazy. So I did some digging and turns out she has a "boyfriend" who is in jail for assault of a guy who had hit on her in a bar. Yeaaaaaah ... and turns out she was pretty crazy and loved feeling "wanted".
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I can only hope I will see the signs of craziness sooner.
