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PostPosted: Sat, 11th Oct 2014 16:37    Post subject: Funerals
My brother died only 3 days ago. He was only 18 years old. Such a tragic loss. Had his whole life ahead of him. Everyday Ive woken up since and I still dont believe he has gone. The more I think about it the more surreal it seems. I think it will finally hit me at the funeral. I wouldnt miss his funeral for the world but fuck I hate them. They are so emotionally draining and I know so many people will be weeping and sobbing. Im fucking terrible at funerals. This will be my third one and I only went to my first one a few years ago when my Grandad passed away. I told myself I would be fine but seeing so many people upset and with emotions running so high, Im sure I will need a tissue or two. The funeral isnt until next Friday so I have plenty of time to prepare but Im sure that wont make any difference whatsoever ... fuck Sad

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PostPosted: Sat, 11th Oct 2014 16:42    Post subject:
No words...tragic..So sorry for your loss

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PostPosted: Sat, 11th Oct 2014 16:48    Post subject:
Fuck Sad I'm truly sorry for you Sad
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PostPosted: Sat, 11th Oct 2014 17:05    Post subject:
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PostPosted: Sat, 11th Oct 2014 17:07    Post subject:
That is just awful Sad
So sorry to hear that.
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PostPosted: Sat, 11th Oct 2014 17:48    Post subject:
Sorry to hear that Sad

If I don't have to go, I won't go. So far I've only been to one, and that was to funeral of my best friends dad.

I really hope not to go any more in the near future :\

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PostPosted: Sat, 11th Oct 2014 17:52    Post subject:
Holy shit Sad
Sorry for your loss and stay strong men

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PostPosted: Sat, 11th Oct 2014 18:25    Post subject:
How awful.

Such a young age to lose ones life. It wont be easy seeing him off, but I'm sure he would want you to be strong for him.

So sorry for your loss.

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PostPosted: Sat, 11th Oct 2014 18:44    Post subject:
So sorry for your loss. Sad

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PostPosted: Sat, 11th Oct 2014 19:39    Post subject:
Truly sorry for your loss. Sad
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PostPosted: Sat, 11th Oct 2014 19:42    Post subject:
Sorry for your loss Sad

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PostPosted: Sat, 11th Oct 2014 20:08    Post subject:
Bloody hell Sad So sorry to hear this...big strong mate!

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PostPosted: Sat, 11th Oct 2014 20:57    Post subject:
Sorry for your loss. Hang in there!

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PostPosted: Sat, 11th Oct 2014 21:53    Post subject:
Sorry, my condolences. Neutral
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PostPosted: Sat, 11th Oct 2014 22:35    Post subject:
headshot wrote:
My brother died only 3 days ago. He was only 18 years old. Such a tragic loss. Had his whole life ahead of him. Everyday Ive woken up since and I still dont believe he has gone. The more I think about it the more surreal it seems. I think it will finally hit me at the funeral. I wouldnt miss his funeral for the world but fuck I hate them. They are so emotionally draining and I know so many people will be weeping and sobbing. Im fucking terrible at funerals. This will be my third one and I only went to my first one a few years ago when my Grandad passed away. I told myself I would be fine but seeing so many people upset and with emotions running so high, Im sure I will need a tissue or two. The funeral isnt until next Friday so I have plenty of time to prepare but Im sure that wont make any difference whatsoever ... fuck Sad

Hey man, so sorry to hear. Stay strong for you and your family, I am sure they will need someone to lean on.

May I ask how he died?
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PostPosted: Sun, 12th Oct 2014 00:02    Post subject:
So sorry for your loss, I hope you're doing okay. Stay strong.



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PostPosted: Sun, 12th Oct 2014 00:17    Post subject:
headshot wrote:
My brother died only 3 days ago. He was only 18 years old. Such a tragic loss. Had his whole life ahead of him. Everyday Ive woken up since and I still dont believe he has gone. The more I think about it the more surreal it seems. I think it will finally hit me at the funeral. I wouldnt miss his funeral for the world but fuck I hate them. They are so emotionally draining and I know so many people will be weeping and sobbing. Im fucking terrible at funerals. This will be my third one and I only went to my first one a few years ago when my Grandad passed away. I told myself I would be fine but seeing so many people upset and with emotions running so high, Im sure I will need a tissue or two. The funeral isnt until next Friday so I have plenty of time to prepare but Im sure that wont make any difference whatsoever ... fuck Sad

So, so sorry to hear that mate. I know how you feel, still hits me every single time (just 4 in my life so far). Just stick with the family, that's what's family is for.
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PostPosted: Sun, 12th Oct 2014 00:18    Post subject:
Sorry for your lose Headshot, keep strong bro

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PostPosted: Sun, 12th Oct 2014 00:39    Post subject:
You have my condolences....
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PostPosted: Sun, 12th Oct 2014 01:41    Post subject:
Bottling up and avoiding facing this sort of stuff won't do anyone any favors either, so I suggest you let loose what you have to.

Sorry about the death of your brother, man.
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PostPosted: Sun, 12th Oct 2014 04:37    Post subject:
Oh damn HS, I'm terribly sorry, you have my deepest condolences Sad

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PostPosted: Sun, 12th Oct 2014 07:54    Post subject:
My condolences, keep strong Sad

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PostPosted: Sun, 12th Oct 2014 08:55    Post subject:
My condolences... terrible, this young Sad

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PostPosted: Sun, 12th Oct 2014 20:09    Post subject:
Wow you guys thanks so much. I never expected this many replies. For those who asked and wondered, my brother had an extensive history of epilepsy. We have the same father but not mother so I guess he is a half-brother but I always saw him as my brother. I seem to remember my Dad telling me he was diagnosed when he was 2 years old. I have lost count of the number of fits and hospital visits he has had. No one expected this but the 16 years since being diagnosed cant have been easy for him. He was always injuring himself when having these fits due to unexpected falls. He loved videogames which are obviously not good for epilepsy sufferers. Eventually my Dad had to take his Playstation away and for a long time he was unable to watch so many movies because of the lighting effects. The hospital were always changing his medication but no-one could completely control it. My Dad said he had a fit, vomited and died of a heart attack.

I still cant believe he has gone. Sad

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PostPosted: Sun, 12th Oct 2014 20:16    Post subject:
Can't imagine what it must be like tbh
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PostPosted: Sun, 12th Oct 2014 20:32    Post subject:
I am sorry to hear about your loss, so sad when a disease takes a young life.
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PostPosted: Sun, 12th Oct 2014 20:51    Post subject:
So sorry for your loss HS. I lost my closest friend a few months back. I bottled it all up for a while, until one night in bed i let it all go. I have a good wife and she just held me and listened.
Everyone deals with grief differently, go with what gets you through the situation, there's no right or wrong way.

What has helped me though, was that i stopped thinking of what i and he had lost and remember what we had. The times we shared, the hobbies, the laughs and the women Smile all of the things that helped shape who i am now.

Be strong, but also let yourself go when you need to Headshot.
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