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Ok, I don't think anybody really gives a shit, but i'll post an update anyway.
Well, that night went shit, apart from saying hi to me at the start she just basically blanked me the whole night, just stayed with her mates, I didn't really know many people there so I left early. I think it's obvious she was trying to give me a taste of my own medicine or whatever. Anway, after that night I was really pissed off and basically thought, 'fuck her!'.
So on thursday she sends me a text saying "Ok I think u learnt your lesson. wanna kiss and make up? love from ******". Well I just ignored it, because I was still annoyed. So she sent me another saying "k im coming round". So she turns up at the house, and we talk a bit then things sort of went on from there.
So now we're apparently boyfriend/girlfriend again, and we're hitting the town tomorrow.
I want to know what you guys think. Did she play me? Am I being an idiot by going back with her? Do you think she'll just do it again?
I don't know, but I really like this girl so i'm going to try it. Thanks for any advice.
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| Posted: Fri, 22nd Jul 2005 18:48 Post subject: |
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nah you have to swallow your pride a bit sometimes when it comes to girls, it wasnt a really big deal, its just that women can get extremely emotional, stuff like that happens.
let it slide this time and get back together with her, make it clear though that you didnt like what she pulled off and that you didnt think that you ve been ignoring her cuz she knew it was guys' night.
if she goes mad about somehing trivial again then its really not worth it.
girls like that never really think about your own feelings, they keep thinking guys are assholes and deserve all kinds of treatments while theyre actually the ones playing around with you coldly.
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| Posted: Fri, 22nd Jul 2005 22:29 Post subject: |
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Congrats man 
See where it goes from here I guess. Although this may be a shitty way of putting it, you've been given a second chance. Can't see how that can be a bad thing. Worst case scenario, it doesn't work out. On the other hand, you may find you really do love this girl, and she the same, in which case it'd be a damned shame if either wasted a chance like this.
Let us know how it goes bud.
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| Posted: Fri, 22nd Jul 2005 23:29 Post subject: |
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| AnimalMother wrote: | Ok, I don't think anybody really gives a shit, but i'll post an update anyway.
Well, that night went shit, apart from saying hi to me at the start she just basically blanked me the whole night, just stayed with her mates, I didn't really know many people there so I left early. I think it's obvious she was trying to give me a taste of my own medicine or whatever. Anway, after that night I was really pissed off and basically thought, 'fuck her!'.
So on thursday she sends me a text saying "Ok I think u learnt your lesson. wanna kiss and make up? love from ******". Well I just ignored it, because I was still annoyed. So she sent me another saying "k im coming round". So she turns up at the house, and we talk a bit then things sort of went on from there.
So now we're apparently boyfriend/girlfriend again, and we're hitting the town tomorrow.
I want to know what you guys think. Did she play me? Am I being an idiot by going back with her? Do you think she'll just do it again?
I don't know, but I really like this girl so i'm going to try it. Thanks for any advice. |
Um...ok man, Im gunna give u my opinion but don't get mad at me cuz I understand, if ur in love, ur blind and love is a sensitive issue for anyone.
I think she did exactly that, played you. She plays dumb little games like that now, and from what i recall u guys havent been together for that long of a period, what kinda shit will she pull u live together, get married, etc
And learnt ur lesson? Man, thats when u get her to go down on u and bust all in her face and say "Learn't ur lesson"?. Serious, thats a control issue right there man, not to mention the whole attention thing I said before...
Anyway, ur gunna do what u feel is right which is normal, but if u guys haven't been together for a long time and haven't talked seriously about a long term commitment, I'd be done with it. And if u guys are planning to be together long-term, then I suggest u sit her down and talk to her seriously about why she'd fuck with u like that - and don't let it lead to make up sex, if she thinks all she has to do is fuck u when she's wrong to make things better...well, im sure u can see where Im going right
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| Posted: Sat, 23rd Jul 2005 00:30 Post subject: |
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I'm glad it worked out AM. Don't forget that at your age, it's all about fun. If it becomes a longer term thing then fine, but don't plan it that way. I'm 25 and I'm still having fun.
If she's fun to hang out with and be around then great. Also, if she's good in bed then super great. Don't forget you've still got a few more years at Uni dude. Women aren't hard to come by. So like I said before, just enjoy yourself.
One last thing though. It's only natural for any man to start having an emotional attachment to a female they frequently spend time with. Just remember that she is not the only girl that will make you feel that way. Almost any girl would, if you gave her the time.
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