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 Posted: Wed, 8th Jan 2014 00:01 Post subject: What does your significant others say about stuff like this? |
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Ive always had problems with this kind of shit, so im wondering, whats the reaction or thoughts into this:
- Saying your opinion on whenever a women or man has good looks.
Ive always had a very detatched opinion when i talk about this, i dont say it because i want to fuck them or i want to have them or that i like them or am attracted to them, i usually just state that the person looks good, nothing more than that. Like im judging them according to what society deems "good looking"
Well ive had my couple of messes for shit like that, i find it ridiculous cause it doesnt mean anything, and i explain it pretty deep.
Hows that in your world.
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I don't really like to hear such comments, and I almost never make them, so I find it a bit unappropriated, but I don't complain either. Like every girl I know loves johnny depp, I'd be mad if I stressed about it.
Besides, just because you like someone (even if you really love this someone), doesn't mean you become blind...
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I believe that those sort of insecurities only exist in weak and sexual centric relationships, when a relationship transcends or bypasses sex, those observations are not only meaningless as they also are inconsequential.
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| Posted: Wed, 8th Jan 2014 05:32 Post subject: |
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| Posted: Wed, 8th Jan 2014 07:36 Post subject: |
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we are open too that stuff or my other half is bi and wants a triangle 
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| Posted: Wed, 8th Jan 2014 09:46 Post subject: |
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I don't have a significant other at the moment, but it's usually not a problem.
Then again, I make my position very clear from the beginning on this sort of thing. I'm the "for real" faithful type - and sex is nothing next to lasting love or a solid relationship, and I radiate that position pretty convincingly.
So, I have no issue saying some woman looks supremely fuckable or whatever, because my urges are not my person. Sure, I'd love to fuck all the hot women in the world - only I can't, because it would mean the end of that which I value much, much more.
That said, I still can't seem to make my relationships last forever 
In any case, the reality is that there are women hotter than your GF in a physical sense - and there are men hotter than you. The key is to realise that's not a bad thing, because those other men/women don't represent love or a lasting relationship.
Even if they did, there'd be someone else even hotter around the corner - and what are you going to do? Go from hot to hotter constantly without ever committing? That's been tried by millions of people - and it only brings misery and loneliness in the end.
So if you and your GF are on the same page and you're happy together, fucking some random hottie would be pretty moronic and it would be a huge step down.
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| Posted: Wed, 8th Jan 2014 09:53 Post subject: |
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I sat with my wife on holiday rating women out of 10 
She knows who I am, and she knows I only have eyes for her.
Whats the problem with appreciating someone else's looks, are some people really that insecure that they foresee the end of all relationships ever if their partner says "Hey they are good looking"
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I saw things like that in here and in other "woman problems" topics so...... Am I the only one that thinks some authorities needs to be alerted about Saner and him possibly being a rapist and/or kidnapper ? |
Saner is not being serious. Unless its the subject of Santa!
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| Posted: Wed, 8th Jan 2014 12:01 Post subject: |
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| paxsali wrote: | Never push a woman's ideas about herself. Always keep them hungry, busy and down.
And if a woman specifically asks you how she looks, say: "I've seen worse." or "You look OK."
Never flatout tell a woman she looks "good". Trust me.
And about men: man, you gay? |
Wait... do you mean about your own woman? to say to her she looks ok and ive seen worse?
Hmmm that i wouldnt play, i know my woman looks good, and i wouldnt choose one otherwise if i didnt like her. But to handle her by keeping her in the middle of my appreciation, that would backfire really quickly.
Hell, mixing that middle ground play with saying the opinion that another woman looks good is a sure way to fire up a fight hahahahaha.
No, not gay, but i do know when a man looks good. As in good looking and presentable.
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| Posted: Wed, 8th Jan 2014 12:25 Post subject: |
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It's awesome when your SO is a little bisexual. You see a hot chick and show it to her and she admires her, she sees a hot chick and shows it to you and you admire her.. 
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She doesn't say anything when I admire someone better looking than her and I do not mind if she checks out some other guy. It would be really retarded to ask of someone that whenever we are out, they should not even look towards other, better looking people. It was pretty awkward at first, but now it's pretty much a subject to laugh about, casually dropping threesomes in the convo.
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| Posted: Wed, 8th Jan 2014 16:46 Post subject: |
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I comment on other girls often. And my gf too. no problem there
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