Gaming at an 'advanced' age of almost 30
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mtj




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PostPosted: Wed, 11th Dec 2013 09:31    Post subject: Gaming at an 'advanced' age of almost 30
So...

Anyone here facing hmm... ridiculing for playing games at the age of ~30?

I've found out that none of my colleagues (ages 23-70+) are playing any computer games (I'm working at a software development company so figure that....)

And I'm being ridiculed by some of them because I haven't 'grown' out of games at this age (29 1/2).

Not that I care about what others really think of my gaming, but I find it really weird.

What's the stigma against gaming, why should it be replaced with watching TV or some such. (The ridiculing is coming from people in their early 30s)
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PostPosted: Wed, 11th Dec 2013 09:32    Post subject:
30 plus is NOT ADVANCED! (unless its your dress size)


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PostPosted: Wed, 11th Dec 2013 09:34    Post subject:
Saner wrote:
30 plus is NOT ADVANCED! (unless its your dress size)


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oh you're an old geezer Wink

30+ is my dress size Sad (well I wear pants)
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PostPosted: Wed, 11th Dec 2013 09:35    Post subject:
I am 32

live with my gf,

have a Masters Degree in Philosophy,

earn my money as an ethics and philosophy teacher,

have a lot of friends and people to go out with on weekends,


and I still play Games. Maybe not as often as before but still.

Who is there to tell me what I do with my free time? What are they doing that is any better? Confused


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PostPosted: Wed, 11th Dec 2013 09:37    Post subject:
I don't give one flying fuck what others think about me playing games, and i'm 27.


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PostPosted: Wed, 11th Dec 2013 09:37    Post subject:
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PostPosted: Wed, 11th Dec 2013 09:42    Post subject:
I know there's no really bad stigma against gaming these days, but the places where I've worked I've always been the only gamer Razz

First at a research company and now in a software development company. (In Austria / Wien)

I just find it really weird.

The gamers I do know all play just games like Call of Duty. I have to keep in contact with my Finnish friends to find anyone to play any games I like with.

(Biggest ridiculing is coming from people with young kids, I guess they're thinking I'm weird for not having kids Razz )


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PostPosted: Wed, 11th Dec 2013 09:45    Post subject:
What does it have to do with kids?

My kids will master their own builds in BGII as soon as they learn to read!


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PostPosted: Wed, 11th Dec 2013 10:02    Post subject:
couleur wrote:
What does it have to do with kids?

My kids will master their own builds in BGII as soon as they learn to read!


because:



I've no idea... I don't have kids nor are we planning to have with my girlfriend.
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PostPosted: Wed, 11th Dec 2013 10:49    Post subject:
31 here.
Still play games, not as much as I used too.
All my high school friends (30+) still play fuck load of games (though none have kids).
My department coworkers (34+) are Battlefield nutjobs.
My other friend from work (37) is playing MMO's with me, another one (29) is into WoW although doesn't have too much time for anything because of spawning an offspring.

But it's usually an argument of people with small kids that suddenly noticed how they fucked themselves and are jealous of people who still have time for pleasure and not jumping around crying shit generating monster.


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PostPosted: Wed, 11th Dec 2013 10:50    Post subject:
31 myself and in every job and age bracket I have bumped into gamers. My boss at one work was 54 and talked with passion about Delta Force games to me and other games. My coworkers of the last job all had a family yet they still enjoyed their gaming 35 and 38 their age.

Dunno I never thought it as weird, that was in Belgium and I can honestly say it's the same in Sweden, worse in the younger brackets over here, but they all seem to just play the same game: CS,LOL,HON but even my gf has a hard time calling them real gamers because how they limit themselves

So nah it's not an age thing, how others fill their free time is as odd as how I fill mine so I don't really care. And I don't think software development is where most gamers are at. It's as bland and generic as it can get in most cases. I saw more gamers in: Engineering side of IT, Admins,retail...


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PostPosted: Wed, 11th Dec 2013 11:08    Post subject:
I've worked in a mid sized software dev company and among 30 people there was one barely-gamer. So I can agree that most of them aren't gamers. Not even people studying software dev with me in college were gamers.

Working in a game dev studio now and everyone is a gamer of course. We're all 27+.
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PostPosted: Wed, 11th Dec 2013 11:17    Post subject:
There are a dying minority/dinosaurs like the MPAA Laughing
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PostPosted: Wed, 11th Dec 2013 11:27    Post subject:
no9999 wrote:
38+

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PostPosted: Wed, 11th Dec 2013 12:08    Post subject:
42 in januari and still playing shitloads daily


shitloads of new stuff in my pc. Cant keep track of it all.
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PostPosted: Wed, 11th Dec 2013 13:22    Post subject:
Losts of people from all classes and ages here play games, ive encountered people who race cars professionally playing games competitively etc, if they never found the love in young ages they probably avoided following the gaming entertainment when they grew and found other things to do. But whoever followed it and spent 30 years having fun (because thats all it is ffs) should have the knack to enjoy having fun playing games for 30 mins or an hour to have fun even at advanced ages.
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PostPosted: Wed, 11th Dec 2013 13:28    Post subject:
Keep in mind that many people won't just come over to you and ask you what games you play. Some you actually need to find out as they actively conceal their interest for games in the workplace.
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PostPosted: Wed, 11th Dec 2013 13:59    Post subject:
Stormwolf wrote:
I don't give one flying fuck what others think about me playing games, and i'm 27.


I'm 32 and have been an obsessive gamer my entire life, raised as one actually. I live with my wife, who is also a gamer though not as compulsive as me, and she has absolutely no problems with it either. Nobody I *know* has ever commented on my gaming, at any age, but if some random street peons want to scowl and look down their nose.. fuck 'em Very Happy
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PostPosted: Wed, 11th Dec 2013 14:15    Post subject:
28 here, and still gaming strong! I have friends that are 32-34 and they still game, although they are filthy console peasants, I only have a handful of PC gamer friends, all around the same age as me 28-30.

If you like it, don't stop. My fiancees mother is 64 years old and she is a gamer Laughing a WoW gamer though


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PostPosted: Wed, 11th Dec 2013 14:32    Post subject:
tw1st wrote:
If you like it, don't stop. My fiancees mother is 64 years old and she is a gamer Laughing a WoW gamer though


Same with my wife's best friend's mother, she's a console gamer and utterly addicted to Skyrim Very Happy
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PostPosted: Wed, 11th Dec 2013 14:53    Post subject:
well in the summer i had that highschool reunion, and ofc amongst other things we reached the subjct of games since in highschool almost everyone was playing oldschool stuff; and guess what , i was the only one still playing constantly haha, although everyone has obviously capable pc's and laptops, even more 2-3 guys built some nasa pcs but they are using them for programs in arhitecture and stuff, dont really know Very Happy
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PostPosted: Wed, 11th Dec 2013 15:25    Post subject:
I am 29, developer, have car, motorbike, rented apartment, play at least 4h a day Very Happy


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PostPosted: Wed, 11th Dec 2013 15:35    Post subject:
34 years here. lawyer, full of daily work, married, and i play games every fucking night!! Razz
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PostPosted: Wed, 11th Dec 2013 15:59    Post subject:
I'm 35. Do play some games, not as much as I did in my prime. Two reasons.

1. Not a lot of games excite me anymore. I like games that surprise me. The immersion factor needs to be there. A lot of the games follow the same formular with small changes.
Not all games are bad that way, take for example GTA. This game is great, the gameplay is nothing new but the story are great and so fort.

2. I HAVE YOUNG KIDS. This takes a huge chunk of my time. I have some time after they are tucked in to play, usually 1-2 hours.¨
Also I have to be able to pause the game if one of them needs me, so I need to be able to pause the game.

so when the kids are all grown and if I'm not sitting in my diaper drooling by the time they have left the house. THEN ITS FUCKIN GAME TIME!!!


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PostPosted: Wed, 11th Dec 2013 16:26    Post subject:
I'm also almost 30 and I play games every week, usually every day if I have the time. Most people I know don't, but they were never gamers anyway, and they have that mentality of "oh, aren't you too old for that?"...

For me it's kinda like being an atheist, if someone asks I will tell, but I don't advertise it.
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PostPosted: Wed, 11th Dec 2013 16:27    Post subject:
They're probably just jelly because you're not a foosball dumbo instead Laughing

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PostPosted: Wed, 11th Dec 2013 16:32    Post subject:
tonizito wrote:
They're probably just jelly because you're not a foosball dumbo instead Laughing

"OMFG did you see the match last night? That penalty, we would won if it wasn't for it!"
"ZOMG did you see that goal?!"
"I think that this season the league will be ours and--"

lol wut lol wut lol wut


That's another thing, I don't like football anymore (I liked it a lot as a teenager) and people here are all like "wow, that is so weird, are you gay?" (no kidding...). When I was travelling abroad everyone kept asking me things about football because I'm brazilian, so annoying.

I hate the fact that most people REALLY want you to fit the mould. But I'm a proud weirdo.
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PostPosted: Wed, 11th Dec 2013 16:44    Post subject:
Exactly same here. They talk about football and drinking all the time."yeah man, i'ev got so damn drunk after that goal. we are fucking winrars man, menchester sooooooks"

I have only one friend at work who is 32 and plays games regularly. Other than that, EVERYONE despise me. it's childly and time wasting to "play kidd games".
They don't understand that games can be way way way more atmospheric and compelx than movies or even some books.

Yet footbal and drinking is good.


oh and don't even ask for their look when i talk about that oculus rift toy Crying or Very sad Laughing


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PostPosted: Wed, 11th Dec 2013 16:54    Post subject:
tonizito wrote:
They're probably just jelly because you're not a foosball dumbo instead Laughing

"OMFG did you see the match last night? That penalty, we would won if it wasn't for it!"
"ZOMG did you see that goal?!"
"I think that this season the league will be ours and--"

lol wut lol wut lol wut


Not judging football-fans but dont they realize they are basically watching different playthroughs of the same fucking game over and over and over and over again to infinity and beyond?! And when their favourite team of uberpaid underbrained legs and egos win, they even feel pride eventhough a good part of the team are completely interchangable throughout the world and for sums of money they cannot even hope to posess.

Hey, but to each their own.


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