Rejection feels like a bitch.
I have a friend who Ive known for nearly a year now and to me it seemed, she started flirting with me and so on recently and 2 days ago she seemed very interested in me. Ive started liking her romantically in the last few weeks, but when i confronted her yesterday she told me Ive just got a wrong impression and she just tends to go over the limit at times. Today at school with her was quite awkward. hopefully our friendship isnt totally ruined now :/
Girls flirt all the time because, well, yeah, dunno. You are probably just feeding the confidence monster inside them Did she go 'do you think i am pretty?', 'what's the nicest part of my body?', 'Would you do me?'
Normally if she wants you, she wants you. She'd go 'I like your but', 'what's your favorite position'. Then you know you have her on the hook. And trust me, girls know all too fast when you are waaay into them. Read: They feel it when their fish is on their tease hook. Oh some girls: You are at the bar talking and you tell her you need to take a piss and then she whispers in your ear and then she gives a small lick in the neck. And 30 seconds later she comes back 'hard taking a piss with a boner '. Anywayz, that was the gf of my best friend. So yeah, basically they are just some naughty, teasy creatures.
So you got teased and she said no. Well, shouldn't be that awkward. If she didn't like you at all, she wouldn't tease you. So you two should just have fun. Of course, you kind of blew it, so if you start something teasy, you could push her away. Let her start the teasing, just join in and enjoy. Keep if light, flirty and funny. Don't go 'I love you' 'I want kids' 'Let's get married'. Let her feel she has to work it to get some flirting and attention back. Don't instantly melt because she gives you some attention, that's a huge turn-off. And then, well maybe it goes somewhere. And if it doesn't, well it doesn't. Plenty of fish in the sea.
Man, i am 25 now and my group of friends is basically still the same as it was when i was 16. Of course, people have joined and people left. Bf and gf have joined, and some stayed after breaking up. Well i am pretty sure a lot has happened between all the males and females that i am not aware off. I have flirted with quite a lot of the female friends, almost never became something serious.Still isn't awkward afterwards. It's only awkward if you want it to be awkward
BTW, the only time girls are teasing and saying no afterwards as a 'joke' (and thus actually means yes) is when she says things like
"I will got home with you, but only to sleep"
She is standing naked in front of you and asks for a tshirt to sleep
Or she asks you to call her the next day before you have sex with her
Well, if you then got inside the bed, and ask, she might say no, but tear her clothes off, she won't say no anymore. Why? Because they think they less hornier/ better then and they need to justify the horny feelings.
Well, if you then got inside the bed, and ask, she might say no, but tear her clothes off, she won't say no anymore. Why? Because they think they less hornier/ better then and they need to justify the horny feelings.
Ummm... what?
boundle (thoughts on cracking AITD) wrote:
i guess thouth if without a legit key the installation was rolling back we are all fucking then
Well, if you then got inside the bed, and ask, she might say no, but tear her clothes off, she won't say no anymore. Why? Because they think they less hornier/ better then and they need to justify the horny feelings.
Ummm... what?
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Well, if you then got inside the bed, and ask, she might say no, but tear her clothes off, she won't say no anymore. Why? Because they think they less hornier/ better then and they need to justify the horny feelings.
Ummm... what?
Well yeah, story of this weekend. So i am taking a girl home and she says 'i live her, gotta go'. And i say, 'just come with me, can be fun'. She says 'no', so i just go home and 1 min later she is running back towards me 'can i sleep at your place?' Then 5 minutes later she is in my room and she is standing there completely naked. And she asks me for a Tshirt. And i say 'well it's pretty warm, you won't need it'. But she insists. So i give her one. Then she is under the blanket and she asks to cuddle. So i tell her i am a better cuddler when she has no Tshirt on. So i take it of, and start cuddling and then she says "i waxed my pussy today, do you like it" and 2 minutes later we were having sex.
So yeah, a lot of 'no' that evening, but i don't think she really wanted a no
Well, if you then got inside the bed, and ask, she might say no, but tear her clothes off, she won't say no anymore. Why? Because they think they less hornier/ better then and they need to justify the horny feelings.
Ummm... what?
I guess girls are very VERY different in Belgium...
shitloads of new stuff in my pc. Cant keep track of it all.
Guess so they are special, she even asked 'Can i please blow you?'.
And after she had come and i still hadn't she insisted me to come because she would feel bad if i didn't
And yeah tearing, i wasn't exactly referring to tearing her clothes off when she was refusing very very had eh, more a poetic tearing off. You know, undressing passionately
Anywayz, end of story, shouldn't be hijacking the fellow's thread
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Well yeah, story of this weekend. So i am taking a girl home and she says 'i live her, gotta go'. And i say, 'just come with me, can be fun'. She says 'no', so i just go home and 1 min later she is running back towards me 'can i sleep at your place?' Then 5 minutes later she is in my room and she is standing there completely naked. And she asks me for a Tshirt. And i say 'well it's pretty warm, you won't need it'. But she insists. So i give her one. Then she is under the blanket and she asks to cuddle. So i tell her i am a better cuddler when she has no Tshirt on. So i take it of, and start cuddling and then she says "i waxed my pussy today, do you like it" and 2 minutes later we were having sex.
So yeah, a lot of 'no' that evening, but i don't think she really wanted a no
But there's nothing about tearing her clothes off in your story
This.
But I get the point...
It's kind of like this
"So, what you're saying is that I can't kiss you like this *kisses*, or... touch this *feel them dilated lips* or caress these *mmmmmm boobies*, is that what you're saying? "
Ripping clothes to shreds... yeaaaaaano
boundle (thoughts on cracking AITD) wrote:
i guess thouth if without a legit key the installation was rolling back we are all fucking then
yep, it will pass. same shit happened to me, but I feel great now. just find something to distract yourself and you'll forget.
hang out with friends, play videogames (you may avoid playing LoL ), watch tv shows and etc.
Always avoid playing LoL with friends.. it breaks strong bonds in just a game .
yup, I told two of them to learn how to fucking play and not to feed
they told me i am a asshole and banned me from their ventrilo server its been year ago..sigh..am still butthurt about this!
Something similar happened with my ranked team last year.. I said they were scrubs, we raged like kids at each other, we barely speak now . Well, better off playing with unknown scrubs. Sort of..
Don;t worry. There will ba another and another and another ....
girls...
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Did she go 'do you think i am pretty?', 'what's the nicest part of my body?', 'Would you do me?'
its been year ago..sigh..am still butthurt about this!
Dude, write those things in 4 lines, not 
