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 Posted: Thu, 7th Jul 2011 02:33 Post subject: Wait, what? Is she testing me? wtf? |
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So, I met this girl on a friend's birthday in May. We had a real good time that day and nooooooooo, I didn't fuck her in the butt  .... -> The next day "she" added me on facebook - I never told her that I'm on FB or to add me.
At first I thought "yea, she's pretty funny, she likes gaming (PC!) and she's hot too!" ... So I asked her out and she said that she's busy and she's sorry blah blah..... that's what she said back than.
After a couple of weeks... I guess it was in June -> she asks me to meet her and a girlfriend in a bar. So I took my best friend and we went on a double-date.
there she told me that she just broke up with her boyfriend yesterday, cus he was an asshole, he was fucking jealous and etc.... I didn't even know that she had a boyfriend O_o..... anyway, I was kinda happy. And again, we had an awesome day together. I invited her to my birthday party and she said that she'll come... and she did.
boy, that...was...a...night. Dunno how it happened, but I kinda told her that she's important to me and that I'd like to know her better. That waas it but she wanted to know more. She wanted to know why she's important to me and etc... we couldn't talk properly, cus people were disturbing us all the time. After a while I found her in my room. She was just standing there and looking at my game collection xD... I tried to talk to her......she didn't say anything. She just hugged me....pretty hard.
Anyway, that was everything that day. she told me to take her out tomorrow to grab a coffee and to continue our conversation. She called me the next day and told me that she's drinking a coffee with another dude that I know and he wants to congratz me to my birthday.... at first I was like "wtf? are you kidding me?". I didn't say anything after that call... I was kinda "hurt", but I didn't care if she wants it that way. aaaand than sometihing unexpected happened. 2 hours after that phonecall she visited me and we talked 'bout my new youtube project and some other stuff...like nothing happened.... well.... again...wtf?
Yesterday she told me that she's going out with that guy and I don't know what answer she expected from me but I told her "yea, alright - have fun and say hi to him". And she immediately asks me if I'm jealous?..... what the fuck?. I told her that I am not jealous and blah blah...
and today...oh, dude.... we were talking again on the net and I tried to ask her out today, but she tells me that she's going out with that guy today, cus they didn't do anything yesterday. So I told her "Aww, too bad, wanted to see you. Well, can't change it. have fun  ". -> and again... she immediately asks me if I am jealous?.. told her again, noooo I'm not. This time I told her that she has the wrong picture of me and that I am not a jealous guy and blah blah.
After that she tells me that she's maybe not meeting him today and I told her "yea, alright, would be nice if we could do something".
at 7pm she tells me that she's taking a shower and than driving to me. So I took a shower too, cleaned up my room and waited for her. around 8pm she tells me that she's meeting that other guy and she's sorry - dude, I was so pissed off that she's messing with me. Told her "alright, no problem" and went offline. I called my buddy and drove to the cinema to watch Transformers 3.
I don't understand her. Why the fuck is she trying to fuck up my feelings?. I think she's a weirdo....
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| Posted: Thu, 7th Jul 2011 02:40 Post subject: |
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ixigia
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| Posted: Thu, 7th Jul 2011 02:43 Post subject: |
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Hmm it kinda sounds like she just wants you as her friend..or maybe she's trying to organize a ménage à trois? 
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| Posted: Thu, 7th Jul 2011 02:56 Post subject: |
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What Frant said.
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| Posted: Thu, 7th Jul 2011 03:55 Post subject: |
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It's a control thing, her ex probably left her feeling out of control. So now she wants to be in control. Tell you what, just confront her about it and tell her that you won't buy into this shit. Tell her that if she just wants to be friends then fine, but if she wants to go out with you; that's it. It's a bout respect and telling you about guys she's going out with just makes her seem like she's just here to play. Tell her if she wants to be serious to get back to you, and if she wants to continue playing that you're not interested (G'bye).
Yes, yes I'm back.
Somewhat.
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| Posted: Thu, 7th Jul 2011 06:43 Post subject: |
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first thing i did when i saw this thread i checked if it's a timechange one
also, what does shitbook have to do with anything ?
she's keeping you on hold cause she can and you're a sucker and do it
if the market isn't good enough she'll let your shitty advances do some effect, but you'll have to work for it
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| Posted: Thu, 7th Jul 2011 07:32 Post subject: |
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Make sure you ask her to go somewhere with you, then cancel plans.
Or just show out you don't care about her stuff for a while. Trust me, it works.
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| Posted: Thu, 7th Jul 2011 07:42 Post subject: |
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Maybe she's bipolar :\
Anycow
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| Posted: Thu, 7th Jul 2011 08:51 Post subject: |
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| Quote: | | It sounds like she's using you (and possibly other guys) to boost her self confidence/ego. |
/thread
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| Posted: Thu, 7th Jul 2011 09:02 Post subject: |
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| tainted4ever wrote: | | Quote: | | It sounds like she's using you (and possibly other guys) to boost her self confidence/ego. |
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+1
Stop paying ANY attention to her, see what happens.
Anyway, when you hit on women, always go all the way, if they're responding positively, go for the kiss. Don't drag it out.
And never tell them they're "important", say other things like "I really like you", "want to know you better" etc
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| Posted: Thu, 7th Jul 2011 09:25 Post subject: |
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If you really like this girl then you need to confront her about this. She's testing you to see if you are as jealous as her old boyfriend but she sucks at it. You'll slowly drift apart if she continues to do it because at some point you'll just say "Fuck it!".
This probably happened because you told her that she's important for you without spending a considerable time with her. She has you by the balls now. Worst thing is she's not being honest with you, so you need to consider the possibility of her being dishonest to you in the future as well.
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| Posted: Thu, 7th Jul 2011 12:04 Post subject: |
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Did someone say "fuck her in the butt"? Be an ultra man and fuck her in the butt and vagina simultaneously!
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| Posted: Thu, 7th Jul 2011 12:55 Post subject: |
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ALL you guys are missing the point!
| Quote: | | The next day "she" added me on facebook |
I rest my case.
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On another note: Why did you even tell "her" that you were not jealous? And why did you say "yeah, everything ok" after she dumped you? You need to be nice to a woman, not her bitch  Obviously you ARE hurt and obviously you ARE jealous. Telling her that you are not a jealous guy when in fact you are jealous because of her reactions would've let to future trouble any way.
"I'm just going out with my friends Mark and Lukas." and you'd be angry as fuck. Would you tell her not to go then?
I know that turks have a special reputation, but you mustn't deny your inner feelings, just to look like mister nice guy
You could've told her that you already made yourself ready and that is was not nice of her. I'd say she made some pretty charming moves but you've been clearly the second choice to the other guy. Sorry mate!
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| Posted: Thu, 7th Jul 2011 13:06 Post subject: |
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Sounds like she is just trying to validate herself and kinda... using you in that process.
Besides, girl can't keep still. She is all over the place with other guys. She has some kind of fantasy shit going on inside the brain.
And Kurosaki, you got that feeling too I bet. Otherwise you wouldn't be bouncing it off us.
You can do better.
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| Posted: Thu, 7th Jul 2011 14:14 Post subject: |
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| Posted: Thu, 7th Jul 2011 14:44 Post subject: |
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Just get over it dude .
Ignore her completely, she just proved you that she's not worth your time .
I mean if a girl were to tell me that she's coming to my place, and I as a nice guy were to clean the house and make everything looks nice and 15 minutes later she'd call telling me that she's going to meet a dude I would fucking fuck her face through the phone.
Never let one of those specimens control you mate .
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| Posted: Thu, 7th Jul 2011 15:25 Post subject: |
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| PumpAction wrote: | ALL you guys are missing the point!
| Quote: | | The next day "she" added me on facebook |
I rest my case.
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Scott Aaronson | chiv wrote: | | thats true you know. newton didnt discover gravity. the apple told him about it, and then he killed it. the core was never found. |
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| Posted: Thu, 7th Jul 2011 15:47 Post subject: |
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Not looking good for you seems she's got you wrapped around her finger, best thing you get out of this is maybe becoming her sex buddy for a while once all the men leave town. You need to slam your fist on the table and tell that cunt what's what.
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| Posted: Thu, 7th Jul 2011 17:19 Post subject: |
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drama
your letting nothing but simple drama get to you...drama NEVER helps someones life. let it go.
she dates you, she doesn't date you, there is only 2 options, and what she really wants will determine which one. why stress over it? the stress doesn't help or contribute to the outcome in anyway.
your really just doing noting more than a complex and stressful version of grabbing a flower and going "she loves me, she loves me not"...
live your life, she lives hers, if they cross paths at some point, so be it.
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| Posted: Thu, 7th Jul 2011 19:21 Post subject: |
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see problem solved she became your booty call
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| Posted: Thu, 7th Jul 2011 20:40 Post subject: |
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| Frant wrote: | | Hfric wrote: | | Be a man grow a mustache |
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i said MUSTACHE not fucking pony tails
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| Posted: Thu, 7th Jul 2011 21:04 Post subject: |
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I"ve never wrote this @ the Hump brfore, but, Fuck her in teh butt
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| Posted: Thu, 7th Jul 2011 21:38 Post subject: |
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i agree, let her fuck you in the butt.
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-Hard times create strong men, strong men create good times, good times create weak men, and weak men create hard times. -G. Michael Hopf
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