Motherboard and CPU, yes, they will make a big difference. The RAM? No, you'll never notice even a slight performance difference. Complete waste. I'd rather swap that 560 Ti for a 570.
EDIT: Oh, missed that you're going from 4GB to 8GB. But even then you won't get any noticeable performance increase out of it. If you have a SSD system disk it does make sense since you can disable page file, create RAM disks etc..
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