Wow im fucking broken...
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PostPosted: Wed, 1st Sep 2010 11:57    Post subject: Wow im fucking broken...
Sad im not norm a sad person.. but damn..

Me and my my partner just broke up. (Who i think/thought is the "one" for me.. )

Been together almost 3 years.. moved in together etc.. had plans for the future and everything...

And well.. she said she pretty much just dont feel the same anymore.. (But she still loves me etc) .. its been on a bit of a downhill slope for a few weeks.. and here we are.

Fuuuuuu it hurts Crying or Very sad Crying or Very sad Crying or Very sad Crying or Very sad
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PostPosted: Wed, 1st Sep 2010 11:58    Post subject:
She doesn't love you, if she "doesn't feel this way anymore." Not exactly a comfort for you, but hey, at least you're not the only one Razz


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Acer




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PostPosted: Wed, 1st Sep 2010 12:01    Post subject:
You gotta love women. She doesent feel the same but she still loves you...
Gimme a break.


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PostPosted: Wed, 1st Sep 2010 12:30    Post subject:
Acer wrote:
You gotta love women. She doesent feel the same but she still loves you...
Gimme a break.


+1
Haven't we all heard that line before?
I know I have.

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I feel for ya. I suppose most people here know how you feel right now :/
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PostPosted: Wed, 1st Sep 2010 12:45    Post subject:
@-=Cartoon=- Sorry to hear that mate.


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PostPosted: Wed, 1st Sep 2010 12:57    Post subject:
and we were due to goto Australia on tuesday to visit family for 3 weeks :/
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PostPosted: Wed, 1st Sep 2010 13:06    Post subject:
"she said she pretty much just dont feel the same anymore.. (But she still loves me etc)"

Follow her it will probably take you to another man lol...

seriously though doesnt sound like chit chat that would say otherwise, most women that have half a brain and know how to communicate and generally dont fuck around will actually explain a bit more info as to why and whats happening..

Let us all know what the "etc.." parts were ...

And it blows for sure been there done that gave up a house etc etc but it most certainly gets better.

p.s goto aus on your own and have a fucking great time solo.
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PostPosted: Wed, 1st Sep 2010 13:08    Post subject:
So its basically the old "its not you, its me" thingy


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PostPosted: Wed, 1st Sep 2010 13:22    Post subject:
-=Cartoon=- wrote:
and we were due to goto Australia on tuesday to visit family for 3 weeks :/


Yours or hers? If its yours still go! Enjoy yourself and I know its a cliche but time really does heal.
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PostPosted: Wed, 1st Sep 2010 13:53    Post subject:
Ankh wrote:
So its basically the old "its not you, its me" thingy


Well no, she said she doesn't feel the same way about him any more, implying that his behaviour would at least be partially influencing that degeneration of feeling.

Oh and obviously she doesn't love him any more, I hate it when women say that kind of shit, if she still loved him she'd want to be with him and work it out whatever happens.

I know how much this hurts, but I've never had a relationship that's lasted 3 years before so I imagine it only gets worse the longer you've been together.

Considering the circumstances I don't think there is any chance for you to get back with her. When the relationship has just slowly deteriorated it means that the emotional connection just wasn't strong enough to keep you together. Now if you'd split up suddenly over an argument or something, then it's completely different.


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PostPosted: Wed, 1st Sep 2010 13:54    Post subject:
AnimalMother wrote:
Ankh wrote:
So its basically the old "its not you, its me" thingy


Well no, she said she doesn't feel the same way about him any more, implying that his behaviour would at least be partially influencing that degeneration of feeling.
.


But thats just it "its nothing wrong with you, but its me..i dont feel the same about you anymore" and there you go...its not you, its me.


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PostPosted: Wed, 1st Sep 2010 14:21    Post subject:
My last relationship also lasted... around 3 years because... love lasts three years!! havent you guys heard ? duh


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PostPosted: Wed, 1st Sep 2010 14:27    Post subject:
Ankh wrote:
AnimalMother wrote:
Ankh wrote:
So its basically the old "its not you, its me" thingy


Well no, she said she doesn't feel the same way about him any more, implying that his behaviour would at least be partially influencing that degeneration of feeling.
.


But thats just it "its nothing wrong with you, but its me..i dont feel the same about you anymore" and there you go...its not you, its me.


Women say that bullshit to alleviate the guilt they are feeling, even guys are not above a few white lies to make the parting easier. The truth really does hurt so we dress it up with half truths and outright bullshit.
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PostPosted: Wed, 1st Sep 2010 14:27    Post subject:
picture of her btw




bit weird we still living together for another week or so
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PostPosted: Wed, 1st Sep 2010 14:28    Post subject:
Maybe we should give up women and start an nforce gay club Cool Face


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PostPosted: Wed, 1st Sep 2010 14:29    Post subject:
She on the left or right?
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PostPosted: Wed, 1st Sep 2010 14:29    Post subject:
Sorry to hear man, feel good!
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PostPosted: Wed, 1st Sep 2010 14:29    Post subject:
First year is that "ah im in love phase", second year is "getting used to it being us two", third year "wtf, isnt there anything more to this relationship??" ( sex is always the same, getting annoyed by the small things, looking at the green grass at the other side etc.) Atleast thats how its been for me mostly I think. (Also, me being a unfaithful fuck sometimes doesnt help)

Ive had 2 relationships last ~3 years. Its fucking tough going through what you do right now but fuck it, you WILL get over it. Nothing anyone say here will help you even 0.01%.


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PostPosted: Wed, 1st Sep 2010 14:34    Post subject:
Unauthorized wrote:
First year is that "ah im in love phase", second year is "getting used to it being us two", third year "wtf, isnt there anything more to this relationship??" ( sex is always the same, getting annoyed by the small things, looking at the green grass at the other side etc.) Atleast thats how its been for me mostly I think.


This.. wonder how some relationships last so long
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PostPosted: Wed, 1st Sep 2010 14:43    Post subject:
First year was meh.. second year was "wtf i'm in love" .. third year was "wtf is this happiness bullshit, i want my misery!!"
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Nothing anyone say here will help you even 0.01%.

He's right, its too late now, why didnt you asked for my opinion before you got involved, i coulda save you all the trouble.. pff..


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PostPosted: Wed, 1st Sep 2010 15:36    Post subject:
it's all good as long as you don't think about suicide


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PostPosted: Wed, 1st Sep 2010 15:53    Post subject:
Get laid. Only cure there is.


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Acer




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PostPosted: Wed, 1st Sep 2010 15:55    Post subject:
helvete wrote:
Get laid. Only cure there is.



+1. Or go to a strip club. I did this after being with my then gf for over a year. Something about nude women shaking their asses and crouch in your face that makes you forget everything about old gfs.


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PostPosted: Wed, 1st Sep 2010 15:58    Post subject:
Hierofan wrote:
it's all good as long as you don't think about suicide


Which you now just happened to put into his mind grinhurt Brilliant! -.-


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PostPosted: Wed, 1st Sep 2010 16:03    Post subject:
What you should do is get a gun and wait outside your flat. Be very conspicuous as well so that she comes out and confronts you, when she does you shoot her in the titty and say a black guy did it if the cops ask.

Then she'll know what true love is...


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PostPosted: Wed, 1st Sep 2010 16:48    Post subject:
-=Cartoon=- wrote:
picture of her btw

*img*


bit weird we still living together for another week or so


She looks cute. That girl on the left aint that bad either. Cool Face (someone had to do it)

But sorry for you mate, I know how you feel.
A buddy just ended his relationship this weekend, and he's completely shitty right now. Behaving all emo and crying etc. Even tho he was the one who ended the relationship.

Just stay strong. In the end it will all be good. The first days and weeks are worst. After that it only gets better. Except if something worse happens. Neutral


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PostPosted: Wed, 1st Sep 2010 21:31    Post subject:
crying for a woman after teens is so fucking pathetic
keep it in motherfuckers


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PostPosted: Wed, 1st Sep 2010 21:56    Post subject:
-=Cartoon=- wrote:
Unauthorized wrote:
First year is that "ah im in love phase", second year is "getting used to it being us two", third year "wtf, isnt there anything more to this relationship??" ( sex is always the same, getting annoyed by the small things, looking at the green grass at the other side etc.) Atleast thats how its been for me mostly I think.


This.. wonder how some relationships last so long


Neutral sorry to read your quit, mate Rolling Eyes

as someone allready writed, most ppl here knows well the feeling that you have right now.

i think that some relations last long because of many factors, but, as a divorce lawyer, the following are maybe the principals:

1.- relations that last long are common in ppl of a mayor age, that lived in another epoche -time- that we do. break ups are more often in "modern" mans and girls.

2.- ppl that last in a long and strong marriage have the will to pospose their personal desires and ambitions. and that is difficult to find in this times, on young ppl.

3.- ppl that last long -even if they are old at this time, from another epoche-, are always willing to forgive. as persons we do a lot of mistakes that have to be forgiven by your partner. that is more than simple love, its an understanding beyond love or partnership. ppl from our age are less willing to forgive.

4.- partners that last long are usualy willing to share common interest in their free time for example. but that has to come in a natural way. hard to find,,, Neutral

what my personal advice to you would be: take time for your pain. cry if you have to. it's not a waste of time, but it should not take longer as one month. don't take too much alcohol, you will see things worse than they really are.

after a month -at maximum- you should be allright again and ready to meet new girls. there are plenty of them and you will find another one, who's gonna be phantastic and funny! Very Happy

i send you a huge smile, my nz fiend Laughing
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PostPosted: Thu, 2nd Sep 2010 01:04    Post subject:
i say if its deff "final" hit the booze, takes away the sting for a few days
then go do your job , it'll distract u

i dont know u but i'm still sorry for ur lots
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