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 Posted: Sun, 6th Nov 2005 04:09 Post subject: girl problems....again |
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first of all: the chick i talked about two days ago is history...
so here's the deal...mind that i'm drunk. i wouldn't have put this shit up on nforce if i wasn't.
tonight i was out with some friends to a club. and there's this chick i really adore, 18 years old (that's 4 years younger than me), one dream of a smile, perfect body...well i've always dreamt about her showing some interest in me.
well tonight it happened. she was dancing with me like all the time, whispering in my ear, making me hot, turning me on...
i knew it from the beginning: it's just a fuckin game, she's just playin' with me, just a game, just a game...
well it was a perfect evening, we talked a lot, we laughed a lot, we danced a lot, we touched each other, we enjoyed it all...
well, i couldn't hold back. i tried to kiss her. she turned, away, i said i'm sorry. the rest of the night was fucked, we kinda ignored each other...so pls tell me what to do...
i'm not sure if she would give it a try if i tried turning back to her about it, talking about what all that was about... trying to sort things out...
...or if she would just ignore it, smiling her perfect smile at me..ignorant, laughing inside, i wouldn't be able to take it...
HELP ME!!!
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| Posted: Sun, 6th Nov 2005 04:17 Post subject: |
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you might not belkieve it but i just came hime and i just danced wuth the most beautifll girl evedr,
jesus christ was a gangsta rapper. they killed him. he came back and made a platinum album.
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| Posted: Sun, 6th Nov 2005 04:21 Post subject: |
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| Posted: Sun, 6th Nov 2005 04:26 Post subject: |
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kinda the reply that i expected...but didn't hope for...
ah fuck, why do i always have to screw up.
so no hope for something more than the chitchat shit?
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| Posted: Sun, 6th Nov 2005 12:17 Post subject: |
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| toeffy wrote: | | you might not belkieve it but i just came hime and i just danced wuth the most beautifll girl evedr, |
Yeah man, but be careful with that acid, you don't want a bad trip.
"Techniclly speaking, Beta-Manboi didnt inject Burberry_Massi with Benz, he injected him with liquid that had air bubbles in it, which caused benz." - House M.D
"Faith without logic is the same as knowledge without understanding; meaningless"
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fisk
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| Posted: Sun, 6th Nov 2005 12:53 Post subject: |
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I think this is a marvellous system.
It works like this to them: The faster, and the more you want it, the more desperate you are, and the shorter the relationship will be.
This goes through the entire character of a man, so if I were her, I'd probably think you're a pre-ejaculative sonofabitch too.
You blew it. Next time this once in a lifetime deal hits you, have some patience, show some quality.
Yes, yes I'm back.
Somewhat.
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| Posted: Sun, 6th Nov 2005 14:54 Post subject: |
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TheSaint
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Jorn
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| Posted: Sun, 6th Nov 2005 15:13 Post subject: |
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i feel sorry for you man... but get over it.
everytime when it happens to me (omg it sounds like its happening like every day to me now =/ ) i think, darn  but then i see an other chick wich is like 10 times sexier. keep looking around and you'll forget her in seconds 
*hugs*
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TheSaint
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| Posted: Sun, 6th Nov 2005 15:16 Post subject: |
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Jorn
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| Posted: Sun, 6th Nov 2005 15:17 Post subject: |
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| Posted: Sun, 6th Nov 2005 15:18 Post subject: |
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I think it's a bit stupid to talk about serious and private things like that on NFOrce as there's little chance that someone will provide you with an advice worth considering, but my motto in life is: it's gonna be what it's gonna be and frankly I wouldn't give a shit beacause there's always something out there waiting for us.
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Jorn
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| Posted: Sun, 6th Nov 2005 15:20 Post subject: |
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yes but i do have requirements too.
its gonna be what its gonna be, but im not gonna be with a retarded ulgy... man-women.
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ChinUp
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| Posted: Sun, 6th Nov 2005 15:21 Post subject: |
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weirdo .. why in the hell did you say sorry .. I mean she was all enjoying you being there for her .. you making her feel like a million .. & you feel like kissing her because its the only way you can be sure she isn’t playing you for a chump ..
Because touch never lies ... she gets exposed for the froud she is .. & you say sorry . go figure
don’t let women do this to you . they have no right to lead you on & then say ..Sike got cha ..
women need to feel respected & emotionally safe .. men need to feel safe also .. but men use touch to know if they are safe .. because touch is the only way a man can know if he is being played for a fool ..
she fucked you over .. stop being such a lap dog ffs .. if you see her again she owes you an apology for leading you on, to a point where you thought she wanted to touch you too ..
she wanted to be free from physical intimacy .. & enjoy your emotional intimacy .. bitch .. you got played .. & you bought it hook line & sinker ..
next time .. take her hand .. leave the kiss for later .. eye contact & take her hand .. she will find it much harder to play you if she is committed physically..
"Most of the change we think we see in life is due to truths being in & out of favor." ~ Frost
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Jorn
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| Posted: Sun, 6th Nov 2005 15:25 Post subject: |
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the master has spoken, now all hush. hush!
@fruziowy: okay. 
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fisk
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| Posted: Sun, 6th Nov 2005 15:32 Post subject: |
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BS ChinUp, and you know it.
Girls do this to test you, both intentionally and subconsciously.
The thing is, if you get hooked and start to go for her while she's teasing, you're just showing her that you do that for anyone that teases you. Not a very loyal trait.
If you go out and some chick starts to (out of the blue) show interest, and wants to kiss you, it gives a sign that she's desperate. (What, she got AIDS?). Remember, this was the first time she showed interest at all, it's not the second date or something.
Relity: She was interested in wierd0, wanted to check his potential, which was all good, until he had to show the initiative to start slobbering over her. That's desperation, and desperate is a mad turn-off.
The thing is though, moments like these can be a real chicken race, pushing the bar higher and higher.
wierd0: I think you still have a chance, just don't be desperate. Don't go up to her and say you're sorry a second time, or start following her. That just proves her hunch was right. Don't show interest in her for awhile, and if she comes back (in any way), keep your distance.
Don't run back though, and if she doesn't show up at all, take a hint.
Yes, yes I'm back.
Somewhat.
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ChinUp
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| Posted: Sun, 6th Nov 2005 16:32 Post subject: |
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fuck off fisk .. if you know anything about women you know they will milk men for attention .. screw them around emotionally .. without any intention of actually backing up there advances ..
unless you let a girl know early .. that you don’t give out devotion & affection to girls who aren’t willing to share the chances .. he takes a chance by showing her he thinks she is ace .. she takes a chance by taking his hand or sharing a kiss ..
the bar has to go up equally .. else someone gets hurt .. like in this situation weirdo got hurt because she was giving off signs that were false ..
he wasn’t waving his dick @ her FFS .. it was an innocent kiss .. if she shied away from that then she is playing games ..
o your ace I like you so much .. don’t touch me .. bullshit
men need to realize that women get as much out of him showering her with admiration & respect .. as he gets from a kiss or a hug
men & women are different .. they are reassured & gratified in entirely different ways .. the fact that women have an advantage because what they want isn’t considered perverse is no excuse to let women shit on you ..
after all no women is going to go out with a guy for long who she doesn’t respect .. & saying sorry for trying to kiss her after she lead him to believe that she cared about him .. is lap dog material ..
men need to have some self respect & stop letting women play them for fools ..
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fisk you calling his brave attempt @ showing her how he felt for her .. slobbering is just fucked up .. whose side are you on anyway ..
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he didnt fuck up she did .. he was honest about his feelings .. she was not
"Most of the change we think we see in life is due to truths being in & out of favor." ~ Frost
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| Posted: Sun, 6th Nov 2005 16:40 Post subject: |
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well your both wrong or both right either way, you cant generalize women. offocurse you can say there are categories and such but each women has a different personality.
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ChinUp
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| Posted: Sun, 6th Nov 2005 17:00 Post subject: |
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saying that’s a boy that’s a girl .. if that generalizing ? or saying women have different brains than men.. is that generalizing ? its fact that women gain far more satisfaction & comfort from emotional commitment than men .. that’s not generalizing about women its stating a fact that women are emotionally focused creatures .. its part of how they function //
A man wants a fast car .. a woman wants a safe car .. this is simple acceptance of the differences between the sexes .. making out everyone is different is just an exercise of dilution ..
Unless we can ascertain simple differences we will be forever worrying about being politically correct & get fucked over because women get away with sexual harassment .. because society doesn’t see it as sexual harassment .. but the man still suffers weather society thinks he has been wronged or not ..
& to top it off men don’t even back each other up & say ya she was a bitch for leading you on ..
They say a you cant generalize . serves you right for trying to slobber all over her .. FFS
he didnt fuck up she did .. he was honest about his feelings .. she was not
"Most of the change we think we see in life is due to truths being in & out of favor." ~ Frost
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| Posted: Sun, 6th Nov 2005 17:24 Post subject: |
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A man wants a fast car : generalizing, there are also women who want fast cars
yu cant just say: women dont like icecream, men like large buildings, women like horses etc.. etc..
its generalizing cause your saying all woman have this dont do that etc..
offtopic:
the worst thing i think is that a woman can always get the children in a divorce (if she isnt a crackwhor or something). even if it was the man who took care of them and the woman went to work the woman will get the children in a divorce and thats worng wrong wrong
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ChinUp
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| Posted: Sun, 6th Nov 2005 17:29 Post subject: |
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I agree .. but this stems from us .. not being willing to call a spade a spade ..
in general women look for a safe car .. sure there are exceptions but we are trying to build up some understanding here . not break down what little understanding we have accumulated so far . please
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he didnt fuck up she did .. he was honest about his feelings .. she was not
the only thing he did wrong was say sorry for letting her screw with his head ..
"Most of the change we think we see in life is due to truths being in & out of favor." ~ Frost
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| Posted: Sun, 6th Nov 2005 17:43 Post subject: |
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ok i see
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just saying sorry was wrong, maybe it would have been better to say sorry but i thought you were in to me with the way you were acting .
but if she cant have fun anymore with him after that then shes a bitch thats true
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| Posted: Sun, 6th Nov 2005 19:21 Post subject: |
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thanks for the replies.
your viewpoints really helped me seeing the things how they are.
i know what to do now.
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ChinUp
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| Posted: Sun, 6th Nov 2005 19:26 Post subject: |
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indeed .. he will know for future reference now ..
Girls cant just use guys to feel good about themselves .. bitches do that .. if a girl is taking on all your kindness without affording you any tenderness she is fucking you around ..
If I guy uses a girl to feel good about himself without affording her kindness & respect .. he is a bastard ..
Works both ways
"Most of the change we think we see in life is due to truths being in & out of favor." ~ Frost
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fisk
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| Posted: Sun, 6th Nov 2005 19:30 Post subject: |
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Your adolescent immature behavior is getting tiring ChinUp.
All girls may not have the best intentions in mind, I can agree to that, but most of them aren't as bad as you give them the credit to be. Unless of course you (for some reason) spend time with only that type of women.
Yes, yes I'm back.
Somewhat.
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TheSaint
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| Posted: Sun, 6th Nov 2005 19:53 Post subject: |
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| fisk wrote: | Your adolescent immature behavior is getting tiring ChinUp.
All girls may not have the best intentions in mind, I can agree to that, but most of them aren't as bad as you give them the credit to be. Unless of course you (for some reason) spend time with only that type of women. |
you both are tiring me FISK STOP DARING CHINUP AND CHINUP STOP TELLING FISK TO FUCKUFF BEFORE I USE THE BANBUTTON
PLEASSSEEEEEE KIDDDOS
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