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Posted: Wed, 10th May 2006 20:30 Post subject: |
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This is what I think of the pic. I think she's attractive enough that if she had a personality I liked, then something could develop there.
See, even if a girl has a great personality, if she looks like she hit every branch of the ugly tree on the way down then got bitchslapped by the god of ugliness; well lets just say Injurious can have her.
Deelix, you're going to the extreme. Not every girl with looks is stupid as shit and acts like a bitch all the time. Of course, when it comes to marrage you want to marry someone you're both physically, emotionally and intellectually attracted to. But with girlfriends, well it's a time to experiment.
"Techniclly speaking, Beta-Manboi didnt inject Burberry_Massi with Benz, he injected him with liquid that had air bubbles in it, which caused benz." - House M.D
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Posted: Wed, 10th May 2006 20:59 Post subject: |
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Well I think a picture gives you a damn good idea how someone looks. Besides there are enough people who are honest about this kind of stuff to make the discussion interesting.
"Techniclly speaking, Beta-Manboi didnt inject Burberry_Massi with Benz, he injected him with liquid that had air bubbles in it, which caused benz." - House M.D
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Posted: Wed, 10th May 2006 22:00 Post subject: |
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Some ppl are honest.
Im honest....havent been laid in 4 weeks...see?
AM is right tho. If the girl has an awesome personality, its all good and its really all that matters. Obviously, some physical attraction is needed but (even tho it sounds corny as fuck) someone's personality really can make them beautiful.
I'd rather be with a 'average' looking girl who is fun to be around and makes me feel good. As oppose to a high maintenance, stuck up diva biatch.
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Posted: Wed, 10th May 2006 22:02 Post subject: |
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LIES
Pictures, if done well, can even make me attractive. So, don't BS about pics. Some people are photogenic and some aren't (I’m not ). Simple as that. To judge a person based on their appearance, you have to meet them in real life. You can't discuss a picture. You don't know what factors are taking place. She/He could be pulling a dumb face. He/She could be drunk (red cheeks/nose [unattractive on some pictures]) He/she could be sick. Etc.
Y'know?
On forums you can pretty much discuss how a person is but not how the person looks.
Yeh. Enough of that.
It’s not about looks when you’re looking for someone you want to spend half your life with. You just gotta be compatible, as AM had stated. Heck, you might end up with the ugly girl from your class just because you two have clicked.
Life is funny when it comes to love.
We're just two lost souls swimming in a fish bowl, year after year, running over the same old ground. What have we found? The same old fears. Wish you were here.
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Posted: Wed, 10th May 2006 23:54 Post subject: |
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| Injurious wrote: | Noobs. Real beauty comes from within!
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I’m with injur. and deelix on this one (deelix cuz his comment on stupid blonds)
All my crushes pretty much have been based on personality. Funness, patience, humour, outdoorness, niceness, ( I have a weird thing about smell too). It’s a whole package deal. Ohh and some guy who is a dumb ass when it comes to finances is a huge turn off. And speaking of turn offs CLEAN EARS IS A MUST, I have a huge thing HUGE about men (well anybody really) who doesn’t fucking clean their ears. I have worked around a lot of shit,piss,spit and blood and nothing grosses me out more than fucking ear wax.
Don’t get me wrong looks are important but they have to have a certain type of look. For me it’s good posture, their body has to fit that Fibonacci(sp) number thing c(alf to thigh ration, Forearm to biceps ratio), decent teeth
I am so not photogenic I looked stoned in every one even when I'm not!!!
Pizda2 - You and your one track mind. My Body, My body , My body. LOL 
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Posted: Thu, 11th May 2006 00:35 Post subject: |
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Come on personality plays a part but we're not talking about marriage. There are some girls that I get on really well with, so well that I couldn't have a relationship with them. Quite a lot is because we're good friends, but also I think it's not what I want in a girl.
Looks whichever way you put it is vital to begin with. I'm not saying you can't love someone who's had an accident since and they're mutilated, but in a club / pub / wherever you're not likely to go up to them and start talking in the first place unless there is some physical attraction.
Of course a great personality wins over looks, but only if the girl is of a good standard - looks wise. Personally i'm not arsed about other peoples opinions so it doesn't bother me if I like someone others don't. It's ok if they've grown on me and I see them for their inner beauty which eccentuates their looks over the passing public. But I can't settle for second best.
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Posted: Thu, 11th May 2006 00:52 Post subject: |
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| Sublime wrote: | Looks whichever way you put it is vital to begin with. I'm not saying you can't love someone who's had an accident since and they're mutilated, but in a club / pub / wherever you're not likely to go up to them and start talking in the first place unless there is some physical attraction.
Of course a great personality wins over looks, but only if the girl is of a good standard - looks wise. Personally i'm not arsed about other peoples opinions so it doesn't bother me if I like someone others don't. It's ok if they've grown on me and I see them for their inner beauty which eccentuates their looks over the passing public. |

We're just two lost souls swimming in a fish bowl, year after year, running over the same old ground. What have we found? The same old fears. Wish you were here.
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Posted: Thu, 11th May 2006 01:27 Post subject: |
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Posted: Thu, 11th May 2006 01:33 Post subject: |
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| [sYn] wrote: | THIS HOWEVER. Is possibly the truest statement you have ever made .. (this.. is a compliment ! so you know..) |
I do know when i'm gettin complimented
I notice u left out the 'I wont settle for 2nd best' thing. which is also true
I also don't think others should be forced / made to accept second best with that knowledge in mind.
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Posted: Thu, 11th May 2006 03:26 Post subject: |
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Second best? Second best as in comparison to what?
Thats a load of shit right there.
"Techniclly speaking, Beta-Manboi didnt inject Burberry_Massi with Benz, he injected him with liquid that had air bubbles in it, which caused benz." - House M.D
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Posted: Thu, 11th May 2006 04:07 Post subject: |
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Well I mean, the person who I end up with would have to be the best. Meaning, if I thought I could do better, I couldn't settle for it and i'd feel bad because they'd also know that they're not the best either. I wouldn't wanna put that pressure on some1 who can't live up to expectations or whatever I choose.
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Posted: Thu, 11th May 2006 13:38 Post subject: |
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You dont CHOOSE your love. The love comes to you.
Sig too big.
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Posted: Thu, 11th May 2006 15:23 Post subject: |
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| Spun[k] wrote: | | You dont CHOOSE your love. The love comes to you. |
That's if you’re ugly and your name sounds a lot better when everyone around you just calls you Waldo. 
We're just two lost souls swimming in a fish bowl, year after year, running over the same old ground. What have we found? The same old fears. Wish you were here.
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Posted: Thu, 11th May 2006 17:07 Post subject: |
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Yeah, but you still can't choose love. I think lots of girls are hawt, but never felt real love (like people explain it)
Neither have Robbie Williams, woot woot!
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Posted: Thu, 11th May 2006 20:22 Post subject: |
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if a girl doesnt have a good character (funny,smart,good at listening and talking and open minded) then there is nothing to it
however this girl does have all of these and she is hot. her nose isnt like that to start with hahaha
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Posted: Thu, 11th May 2006 20:29 Post subject: |
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Most important things are, do you like her? Do you see yourself with her when you're old? Do you see each other in a loving family?
Is she just a teenage fling? Will you be there for her when she needs you the most? Will she be there for you when you need her the most?
I mean. Yeah, she has it all, looks, brains, etc... but that's how you see her... does she see that in you?
I knew bunch of blokes that fell for a girl because she was perfect and all, but them girls never fell for them. These guys were heartbroken and moved on to another to have their heartbroken. Y’know… we’ve got hormones clouding our judgment.
We know the story from your point of view, but does she really feel the same way you feel about her? If she does... wedding bells, bitch! Tap that ass under the chapel and make her yours 
We're just two lost souls swimming in a fish bowl, year after year, running over the same old ground. What have we found? The same old fears. Wish you were here.
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Posted: Thu, 11th May 2006 20:33 Post subject: |
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Posted: Thu, 11th May 2006 20:36 Post subject: |
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i have a friend who always were striped shirts like that. but they are green and black striped. or blue and black striped. We all always ask where he is 
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Posted: Thu, 11th May 2006 21:22 Post subject: |
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| Injurious wrote: | Most important things are, do you like her? Do you see yourself with her when you're old? Do you see each other in a loving family?
Is she just a teenage fling? Will you be there for her when she needs you the most? Will she be there for you when you need her the most?
I mean. Yeah, she has it all, looks, brains, etc... but that's how you see her... does she see that in you?
I knew bunch of blokes that fell for a girl because she was perfect and all, but them girls never fell for them. These guys were heartbroken and moved on to another to have their heartbroken. Y’know… we’ve got hormones clouding our judgment.
We know the story from your point of view, but does she really feel the same way you feel about her? If she does... wedding bells, bitch! Tap that ass under the chapel and make her yours  |
Aint that the truth...we're all guided by cocks
Well, not all guys....but when your young, its almost a for sure thing. 
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Posted: Fri, 12th May 2006 09:14 Post subject: |
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It's a complex I have pistolshrimp
Nouseforname, it has nothing to do with knowing her or not.
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Posted: Fri, 12th May 2006 09:29 Post subject: |
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| Spun[k] wrote: | | You dont CHOOSE your love. The love comes to you. |
Is that why you're still waiting? 
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Posted: Fri, 12th May 2006 16:23 Post subject: |
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Posted: Fri, 12th May 2006 22:03 Post subject: |
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Posted: Fri, 12th May 2006 22:11 Post subject: |
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Posted: Fri, 12th May 2006 22:22 Post subject: |
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| Injurious wrote: | Noobs. Real beauty comes from within!
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Might be so, but with me it's, Looks first then inside.
perhaps i'm doing something wrong haha ;p
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Posted: Fri, 12th May 2006 22:25 Post subject: |
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| AnimalMother wrote: | | pistolshrimp wrote: |
| SycoShaman wrote: | Aint that the truth...we're all guided by cocks
Well, not all guys....but when your young, its almost a for sure thing.  |
That is so true. It’s like lack of blood to the brain when when a guy gets turned on. And we women, we know that, and we use it to our advantage.  |
Yes, and it's damn annoying! |
But thats no problem as long as you'r both having fun.
As long as you'r not 30, you shouldn't go for the long term thing from the beginning. Just have fun together, be happy together, and see what it gives. And no emphasis on the far future, if it happens, it happens. If it don't happen, no problem, find another girl.
And yeah, you are vulnerable then feeling-wise (if thats a word ). But at least you know what woman you have then. If she fucks around, dump her, get a new one. If she stays, is sweet, hold on, marry, become happy 
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Posted: Fri, 12th May 2006 22:54 Post subject: |
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| spankie wrote: | | AnimalMother wrote: | | pistolshrimp wrote: |
That is so true. It’s like lack of blood to the brain when when a guy gets turned on. And we women, we know that, and we use it to our advantage.  |
Yes, and it's damn annoying! |
But thats no problem as long as you'r both having fun.
As long as you'r not 30, you shouldn't go for the long term thing from the beginning. Just have fun together, be happy together, and see what it gives. And no emphasis on the far future, if it happens, it happens. If it don't happen, no problem, find another girl.
And yeah, you are vulnerable then feeling-wise (if thats a word ). But at least you know what woman you have then. If she fucks around, dump her, get a new one. If she stays, is sweet, hold on, marry, become happy  |
LOL I think even if you are 30 you should still go for fun as long as you are not some couger trawlling at the bar and squizing your ass into outdated outfits showing off some nasty camel toe who thinks their hot shit . Soo unattractive.
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Posted: Fri, 12th May 2006 23:05 Post subject: |
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Hey hey....cougars were the best back in the day. 
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