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| Posted: Fri, 7th Jul 2006 17:36 Post subject: |
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| pistolshrimp wrote: |
You know what? You are being really mean tonight.
The guy wants a fucking dinner, at an expensive restaurant to say the least. If he could get the sex he would probe go for that too. I am not stupid. I think I would know if some guy was interested in me or not. Thank you very much. It could be some contest for all I know but I don’t think my contractor would allow it because of money on his part. (He hates my guts now so who knows) I can’t even remember what d-man even looked like ( I was upset, really upset) but I would have to say 26-32 but who knows |
Ok, you know best. Sorry if I came across as being mean. It's not always obvious if someone is interested in you though.
Just answer me this, why would a guy want to go to a meal with a women if he didn't like her, at least sexually?
When I said 'like' I didn't necessarily mean he wants a relationship.
"Techniclly speaking, Beta-Manboi didnt inject Burberry_Massi with Benz, he injected him with liquid that had air bubbles in it, which caused benz." - House M.D
"Faith without logic is the same as knowledge without understanding; meaningless"
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HubU
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| Posted: Fri, 7th Jul 2006 17:46 Post subject: |
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Is he more of a wanksta?
"Techniclly speaking, Beta-Manboi didnt inject Burberry_Massi with Benz, he injected him with liquid that had air bubbles in it, which caused benz." - House M.D
"Faith without logic is the same as knowledge without understanding; meaningless"
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HubU
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| Posted: Fri, 7th Jul 2006 17:48 Post subject: |
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Damn shitty connection :O
"Music washes away from the soul the dust of everyday life." ~Berthold Auerbach
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SycoShaman
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| Posted: Fri, 7th Jul 2006 23:52 Post subject: |
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| pistolshrimp wrote: | | SycoShaman wrote: | | pistolshrimp wrote: |
Honestly I would freak out if some guy approached me if I was crying. I never sob out loud and all that stuff. I just kinda start shaking and I get the tears. So difficult I can feel it right in the back of my throat. That was what happened today. I don’t want people knowing. Would you want people knowing if you started crying?
Anyone special I was with would know to show no emotion to it because it would just make me worse. Then I would be mad at them. Some women I have seen cry really hard but I don’t. Just my eyes water, that is it. when I lost my friend I didn’t even really cry that much. |
So you like to be alone when your upset? |
Yes, for the most part. Why let other people let you down when you can take care of your own personal busines. Right? IMO. |
It all depends, for me anyway. If im really upset, having someone around who can calm you down or make you feel better, is good. I dont know where i'd be if i didnt have close friends to help me through the bad times.
Even if the person just listens, it helps you know? |
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| Posted: Sat, 8th Jul 2006 00:02 Post subject: |
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| SycoShaman wrote: | | pistolshrimp wrote: | | SycoShaman wrote: |
So you like to be alone when your upset? |
Yes, for the most part. Why let other people let you down when you can take care of your own personal busines. Right? IMO. |
It all depends, for me anyway. If im really upset, having someone around who can calm you down or make you feel better, is good. I dont know where i'd be if i didnt have close friends to help me through the bad times.
Even if the person just listens, it helps you know? |
I agree. I guess I do a little of both.
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| Posted: Sat, 8th Jul 2006 00:52 Post subject: |
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If this is the worst day of your life you haven't lived. You're a lil pussy that's all I can say.
Yes crying over your friend is ok, and crying in public is ok too (as long as it's not for attention) but why even start crying in the first place? It's a bit of wood and he wouldn't do the job. Not your problem, no need to cry about it just be realistic.
You'll get no sympathy from me, I just don't see how this can be so bad :/ a bad day is when someone actually dies, or when your life around you falls apart, not from a bit of wood and some stairs 
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SycoShaman
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| Posted: Sat, 8th Jul 2006 01:08 Post subject: |
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| Sublime wrote: | If this is the worst day of your life you haven't lived. You're a lil pussy that's all I can say.
Yes crying over your friend is ok, and crying in public is ok too (as long as it's not for attention) but why even start crying in the first place? It's a bit of wood and he wouldn't do the job. Not your problem, no need to cry about it just be realistic.
You'll get no sympathy from me, I just don't see how this can be so bad :/ a bad day is when someone actually dies, or when your life around you falls apart, not from a bit of wood and some stairs |
Some people are more sensitive than others man. And some ppl deal with things differently than others. Some ppl cry, some get mad, some ppl shut up. It all depends on the person. |
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| Posted: Sat, 8th Jul 2006 01:10 Post subject: |
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Yea but all that commotion over nothing really seems silly. If she hates crying in public then why cry? It doesn't seem like this is the tip of the iceberg, and is just her venting her stress built up over the week from a series of un-related incidents. If it was then it's understandable but she should say.
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| Posted: Sat, 8th Jul 2006 01:13 Post subject: |
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| Sublime wrote: | | Yea but all that commotion over nothing really seems silly. If she hates crying in public then why cry? It doesn't seem like this is the tip of the iceberg, and is just her venting her stress built up over the week from a series of un-related incidents. If it was then it's understandable but she should say. |
You've never had a moment where you couldnt control your emotional reaction to a situation?
I know I have. |
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| Posted: Sat, 8th Jul 2006 01:22 Post subject: |
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Over something as little as this though? Twice?
Like I said, the friend thing is understandable but not the stairs.
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| Posted: Sat, 8th Jul 2006 02:48 Post subject: |
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@kosmiq
I guess I feel responsible for them. The husband had a brain tumour the size of a orange removed last summer. The wife is high strung and she kinda fell apart so I help them out when I can. You have to look after your family. So many people don’t these days.
@animalmother
There are lots of reasons why a guy would go for a meal with a women, not all of them have to do with sex. Same type of reasons as why a women would do the same. I think he honesty wants to help me out but I kinda have the feeling that there is something he wants and I just gave him the opportunity. Who knows right. BTW I don’t treat people like shit even if they are ugly. What goes around comes around.
@Subby
OK maybe I was a little sarcastic there. Yes I have had worst days before. I haven’t cried in public probably in 13 years. Not a bad record I think. I don’t require your sympathy. You sharing your opinion is a bit of a different story.
Yes there are some unrelated things going on plus the safety box thing made me start thinking about everything. Put me in a weak state of mind but I gotta deal with his parents and they were going on about him too.
I am having a better day today but I am worried about the restaurant part. I am bit weird when it comes to restaurants. I am very particular about which table I sit at, who I am sitting with. If I am uncomfortable I can’t eat anything.
I am going to take some adavan before I go to dinner and maybe he won’t notice I am acting a bit strange or nervous
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| Posted: Sat, 8th Jul 2006 16:13 Post subject: |
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| cnZ wrote: | | Spun[k] wrote: | I dropped a cookie once.. Many tears that day..
I was 4...  |
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We're just two lost souls swimming in a fish bowl, year after year, running over the same old ground. What have we found? The same old fears. Wish you were here. |
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| Posted: Sun, 9th Jul 2006 11:38 Post subject: |
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OK Let the flaming begin, I deserve it:(
I KNOW HOW THE GUYS FEEL , TRUST ME, AFTER THIS, I KNOW.
OK I had the date. I am back. 
So many things to say here but I think I should not.. Actually, if you think about it , it was really quite funny, In a funny kinda way. I took my ativan and and didn’t even touch the alcohol. (what a waste). He did get paid 350 for 5 hrs work..
He spent about (adding it up) .... $30 1 bottle of wine, and about $20 for beer. Yet not too bad. Total of about $50 . I think that is a lot. Maybe a bit rude.
Calamoni $11 (I had about 5 pieces of them ), A 6 pack Oyster $16, and $10 shrimp skillet.
For dinner he ordered the Steak and Lobster (most expensive thing on menu) @ $45.
Anyway the bill total was $147 , with the tax ( about $24) about $172.
Plus the tip (20%) was about $ 205.
He didn’t even offer to pay the tax or for the booze, or tip..
He did really help me out in a bad situation, I know. During the job he was very accommodating. I am sorry, not I am really bitching. He seemed a bit surprised that actually helped him.
I don’’t really think this was a date. After the job he said “oh, you really clean yourself up well” What is that suppose to mean? He talked mostly about himself and his goals.
He asked me to do some things (job wise, stuff I just don’t want ot get involved ) for him which I am not comfortable with. I think that is what that was about . There was some other stuff but I am not comfortable talking about.
edit : I meant I SPENT, (not him) . The way I typed it made it sound like he paid for it.
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| Posted: Sun, 9th Jul 2006 13:51 Post subject: |
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Im trying to catch you, but its not really easy. Ok, you was on a date? With a guy who ordered lots of stuff, he was talking about himself. And it had something to do with the job.
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| Posted: Sun, 9th Jul 2006 21:46 Post subject: |
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Did you fuck him In teh ass?
Sig too big.
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| Posted: Sun, 9th Jul 2006 21:48 Post subject: |
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I know how you feel.
Me and my mates went to a buffet restaurant. 18 bux a poop. There was around 12 of us. Or so. Twas a fun bit. All I had was sushi and some scotch. Yaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay.
When it came to the bill half the folks were shocked and uttered at how much the thing cost. 18 bucks a head... they all thought it was 11 and shit. Some people thought others would pay for them. It was hysterical.
Me and my two buds got piss mad at the situation. Well they did. I never get mad at people. I’m a happy person.
Anywho... Ended that me and my two mates paid 70% of the bill. I paid the most tho... since I wanted to get out of there quickly. It was getting mad.
I laughed my ass off... they complained that the bill was too high cause we had a few drinks. I offered to pay for the drinks and everything and i still ended up paying for the meal for some of my mates. for a 30 odd bill for me (w/ drinks and the tip) i ended up pay addition 50 for some. All in all i was happy that i got to spend time with my friends... but my two mates got furious at their carelessness that due to peer preassure out of the total 12 mates... i only got a handful
Got some out side of the circle friends... but those 12 were ... the people you hang with on long summer days. Those days are long gone.
Man… I hate seeing what money does to people. I would’ve paid for the whole meal but I was talked out of it by my two friends. They were angry enough.
So… 200 odd on the guy… dang… wish you’d take me out for a meal  I have to cook my own food… I haven’t had decent restaurant food in months
As it is… when the footy is done with… im gonna go cook some black pepper beef and curry rice. LOMG! I love my cooking! I wish I was gay and I cloned my self! SO I could enjoy the fantastic food I make. Yum!
205… dang… where did you go? Red Lobster? Kelseys? (those are the only two expensive restaurants that I know )_
We're just two lost souls swimming in a fish bowl, year after year, running over the same old ground. What have we found? The same old fears. Wish you were here.
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| Posted: Sun, 9th Jul 2006 22:21 Post subject: |
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@injurious
Ya shit like that happens EVERY time you go out with a group. I have noticed some people NEVER pay their share. In a situation like that I never let people leave until the bill is paid. You know where you get fucked over the most. The tax and the tip, exp the booze tax. People never take that into fucking consideration BTW $18 isn’t that much for a buffet. I like buffets I get to pick and choose what I want and they always have a decent salad bar cuz that is the cheapest. Usually with a buffet you have to pay in advance. I have never been to one where you have not.
When I go out in a group I always have them do a separate bill for me. Sometimes I go to the server alone and tell them before they have taken any orders. That way I don’t get fucked over.
I am going to sound like a bitch here but I don’t care. The guy talked with his mouth full and used the same fork for the whole meal. You don’t really do that when the place provides the right fork for the right food at least not in a city (esp when you are trying to act like a bit of a big shot). Not a big deal tho, something I just noticed. Mind you I have seen people of means throw food at each other at some pretty expensive places when I was a kid.
Red Lobster LOL. Those are only in the states here I think. That place is kinda like the Red Robins of seafood. I don’t know if they have that (Red Robins) chain back east. ( I know the previous owner of that chain) he is a cool guy. Sometimes I get gifts certs for Christmas from that family.
I went here:
http://www.boathouserestaurants.ca/
I wouldn’t call it fine dining or anything. More like a steak house but for seafood.
@spunk
no I did not... ummm. fuck him in the ass. There was no fucking of any kind
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| Posted: Sun, 9th Jul 2006 22:32 Post subject: |
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| pistolshrimp wrote: | | BTW $18 isn’t that much for a buffet. |
It is when you're a student  Sorry... I just have to rub that in... i'm not some 20 odd year old with a perm job that pays well. If I have to fork over 100$ on something... i just starve
| pistolshrimp wrote: | | I am going to sound like a bitch here but I don’t care. The guy talked with his mouth full and used the same fork for the whole meal. |
Wtf? That... hahaah... I would've slapped him in the head if i were you... that's just plainj out rude. I hate it when people talk and eat... there's that munching sound and it drives me crazy. Lack of culture or what ever... but when you're in public you have to watch your manner... at home you can even eat the rice with a spoon, just not in public.
| pistolshrimp wrote: | | Red Lobster LOL. Those are only in the states here I think. That place is kinda like the Red Robins of seafood. |
There are plenty here in toronto. Good too. Expensive, but good. Kelsey is my fave tho. Fried Calamari... OMG... yummi!
Heh... Looks like a nice place tho. I don't think we have anything like that here... well kelseys... comes to mind... But meh... as long as the food is good I always say.
We're just two lost souls swimming in a fish bowl, year after year, running over the same old ground. What have we found? The same old fears. Wish you were here. |
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| Posted: Sun, 9th Jul 2006 23:20 Post subject: |
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@Injurious
Students have to be a lot more careful with there money. When I was in school I didn't really have to watch it that much. Lived at home. We have a rule in my family. Education is free and is always paid for if you want to better yourself. Probably why I took my time thru it and took a lot of whatever I wanted. My sister was such a scammer. She would sign up for an extra class (expensive one) and drop it the next day. She would receive a full refund cheque in the mail in a few days. At least $600. Plus she would buy extra books and take them back the next day too and get the money back for those. She would see her old textbooks too. Then the little bitch started selling MINE!!!!!! and I freaked. I like to keep mine.
I kinda have been playing around with the idea of some Art History classes. Graphics classes would be cool too. Even web design stuff. I already know most of the basics and you could totally do that from home.
LOL I wouldn't hit someone for bad manners (neither would you I bet) It is just when someone is name dropping and pretending to be something they aren't I think is kinda phoney.
Even the way he ordered his food. He was condensing to the staff too. Like he was looking down his nose at them. Like he thought he was better then them. It is a sign of insecurity. Maybe that waiter is a student going to law school? Or into med school. You never know about that sort of stuff. I would LMAO if one day he chopped something off and he ends up in emerg and the waiter he treated like shit is the one who sticks his finger back on. You know what I mean?
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| Posted: Sun, 9th Jul 2006 23:25 Post subject: |
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[quote="pistolshrimp"LOL I wouldn't hit someone for bad manners (neither would you I bet) [/quote]
You're right... I'd just walk away. I can't stand bad manners. It's the way I was raised. I just can't be in the same room when I see someone eating like a pig. Makes me just sick to my stomach.
Food is almost done. I just have to cook the rice. YUM!
We're just two lost souls swimming in a fish bowl, year after year, running over the same old ground. What have we found? The same old fears. Wish you were here.
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