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Hierofan
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fuck her in the butt and you won't have to worry about her orgasm
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| Posted: Thu, 27th Oct 2011 18:34 Post subject: |
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As a virgin, she's probably under enough pressure as it is. Most girls are insecure in the beginning, so I doubt she's expecting anything like an orgasm the first time. Just take it slow and be gentle. I'm not exactly an expert, but I find that good sex can take a while to achieve - and even the male can have a hard time getting an orgasm at first. Don't sweat it.
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| Posted: Thu, 27th Oct 2011 19:15 Post subject: |
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the whole "wait till marriage" crap is one thing, but is/was she sexually active in any way before?
cause if not, her orgasm (or getting anywhere near it) should be the least of your worries during that night, simply because it's going to be damn difficult to achieve, repressed sexuality and all that.
take your time, lots of foreplay and then go down on her, combine it with a bit of manual stimulation and you should be good to go.
oh and if you want to do it really really right, postpone the wedding to february 1st, switch the location to japan and after you've done the deed, hang the sheet from your window 
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| Posted: Thu, 27th Oct 2011 19:17 Post subject: |
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I have never taken anyone's virginity before, when I had the chance, I was too afraid of emotional attachment, so up until my twenties I always hooked up with more experienced and somewhat older women than myself. What I know is, that women are at least as stressed about the the event as men are, and those of the women I spoke to, who remember their first time as something pleasurable, say it was pleasurable, because they were communicating with their partner during sex, and thus the penetration took place, when the women were ready for it.
Communication is most important during the event, not only before it.
What I think is also important is not to set goals, just let it come naturally. If she becomes afraid or is unable to orgasm due to clitoral stimulation, don't ever force it, and don't ever act, like you have expectations. The reason most people have anxiety the first time, is because they think their partner has expectations. Be reassuring, even as much as be willing to simply stop and watch a movie or something, if she's too anxious. It isn't written anywhere, that you absolutely must have sex on your wedding night. Just do what feels best and most comfortable for both of you.
As for technicalities, I usually give my girlfriend one or more orgasms with hand or mouth before I penetrate her, because of three main reasons: I love watching her come, then she's way more sensitive after an orgasm, and third her pussy simply feels better after an orgasm (tighter, way more wet).
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zipfero
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| Posted: Thu, 27th Oct 2011 19:48 Post subject: |
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It's not unheard of guys, I'm not sure why it's such a big deal. Lots of couples wait until marriage before making love.
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| Posted: Thu, 27th Oct 2011 19:49 Post subject: |
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TSR69
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| Posted: Thu, 27th Oct 2011 19:54 Post subject: |
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Well if things don't work out between the sheets, it can result in an unstable relation. Can't be helped in this case. Anyway Mister_s I think it is kinda brave of you to ask this here. I think others already said enough about the subject so I will not comment.
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| Posted: Thu, 27th Oct 2011 20:00 Post subject: |
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its a great funnny posttttt loll hahha.. on a serious note, "how does she know it will make it better" hahah you fucking think you're girl has not say, played in the bath with the shower head on her vagina? please ffs, and you are about ot marry her?
Seriously just be the gentle animal  and tongue her while squeezing her titties till she pops... and yes even after that she will quite happily take it again with ur schlong!.. women like to multiple virgins or not..
good luck, and please dont forget the fucking photos for us all here on the hump, I say set up a camera in the honeymoon suite before hand its a cert popcorn night for us all..
peace out
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| Posted: Thu, 27th Oct 2011 20:05 Post subject: |
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Also, don't believe I was so stupid to forget before, but: does she masturbate? If yes, and who the fuck doesn't, then ask her to give pointers on how you should proceed.
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| Posted: Thu, 27th Oct 2011 20:06 Post subject: |
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Mister_s, I have witnessed both sides, making my ex orgasm first made sex afterwards more difficult but then it has worked the other way around for other girls.
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| Posted: Thu, 27th Oct 2011 20:15 Post subject: |
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Thanks for the advice all.
| moosenoodles wrote: | | good luck, and please dont forget the fucking photos for us all here on the hump, I say set up a camera in the honeymoon suite before hand its a cert popcorn night for us all.. |
It would be rude of me to ask for advice and not show you guys how it worked out. Leaked sextape incoming.
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| Posted: Thu, 27th Oct 2011 20:22 Post subject: |
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| Mister_s wrote: | Thanks for the advice all.
| moosenoodles wrote: | | good luck, and please dont forget the fucking photos for us all here on the hump, I say set up a camera in the honeymoon suite before hand its a cert popcorn night for us all.. |
It would be rude of me to ask for advice and not show you guys how it worked out. Leaked sextape incoming. |
heheh lol
you will do fine im sure  after all its pretty natural shit teh sex thing... |
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| Posted: Thu, 27th Oct 2011 20:43 Post subject: |
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fuck her up the butt.
butt
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| Posted: Thu, 27th Oct 2011 20:58 Post subject: |
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| psikobare wrote: | | zipfero wrote: | You're marrying someone you havent slept with?  |
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could be alot of fun, training the inexperienced is great done it loads of times in my younger days and believe me it can be very rewarding lol.. |
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spankie
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| Posted: Thu, 27th Oct 2011 21:23 Post subject: |
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yeah but divorcing is also a sin...
the real question is whether they are happier, which i doubt
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| Posted: Thu, 27th Oct 2011 21:28 Post subject: |
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I remember reading a bunch of studies on this in my Womens Studies class, all which found that premarital sex is usually correlated with marital dissatisfaction. Of course, browsing on the internet I find that a lot of these studies seem to be emanating from Mormon and Protestant unis, so beware the messenger...
Sense Amid Madness, Wit Amidst Folly
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| Posted: Thu, 27th Oct 2011 23:46 Post subject: |
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Why can't you make her orgasm without having intercourse? Why not give her oral pleasure, or finger her? As far as I know, only penetretion is forbidden for christians before marriage (if that is why she is still a virgin).
So why not go ahead and make her orgasm another way? I find it extremely difficult to make my girl come from penetration, my penis is fine, it's just the way it works out with us that it's easier for her to come when I lick or finger her...
“The only way to deal with an unfree world is to become so absolutely free that your very existence is an act of rebellion.”
- Albert Camus
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TSR69
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| Posted: Thu, 27th Oct 2011 23:54 Post subject: |
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| tainted4ever wrote: | | I remember reading a bunch of studies on this in my Womens Studies class, all which found that premarital sex is usually correlated with marital dissatisfaction. Of course, browsing on the internet I find that a lot of these studies seem to be emanating from Mormon and Protestant unis, so beware the messenger... |
I would expect a more progressive attitude towards this subject in California. All those studies must have been made up.
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[sYn]
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| Posted: Fri, 28th Oct 2011 01:17 Post subject: |
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| fisk wrote: | If this is serious, I think you should just go and talk to the girl.
Relax and stay communicative man. |
^^ this.
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